He hates my children

By Miss Kes

Thursday, August 17, 2017

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The nuclear family is the traditional ideal, but when life swings you in different directions, often this is not everyone's reality. For the woman with children, the search for love and completeness will prevail as much as it does for the childless woman. But in her search other issues can also come to the fore, like a terrible relationship between her new beau and child/ren, as the women below share:


I was seeing this man for a few months, and things went from good to sour. At first he accepted me with my three children and then I realised changes after we became intimate. After that, my kids became a huge nuisance to our relationship. I had to cut ties with him because no one comes between me and my children.


My man right now is giving me hell because I realise he secretly hates my son. I really don't like how he speaks to my son but I am really fearful about saying anything and losing my help as he is currently taking care of me and my son. I am really uncomfortable about it but it is what it is right now.


I had an experience with a man I dated for a few days. The moment he met my son, I noticed a vibe but I still continued to date him. But after a while I saw something that changed that entire thing. My son is two years old so he loves to play and he is very active, and my son accidentally vomited on his shoes and he shouted at the child so hard that he ran out of the room crying. At the time I was in the kitchen and when I heard the shout and my kid's cries, it was time to terminate that relationship. I am not letting any man overstep certain boundaries.


Ladies, if you have a man hating on your offspring, do yourself a huge favor and let that man go. Once I introduce my child to man, that relationship is on another level because I don't introduce my kid to every male I date as I am extremely selective. But if I see any sort or disrespect or foul play, that is the end of the show.


I had to end a relationship with this guy I was seeing because he hit my child when I wasn't around and I thought that was beyond rude. If my child is acting up, let me know. I was livid about the entire thing so I cut it from the root.




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