No, not that fantasy!

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If your mate requests something that is against your morals, would you submit or quit? The women below tell the strangest requests their men have made to them, and their reactions.


My friend's marriage is going downhill because her husband will not stop cheating. She told me it started several months ago when he came home one night and requested some backdoor action. She got real mad about it and walked out of the bedroom. He is now getting whatever he is fantasising about elsewhere, and my friend is confused about where her marriage stands. I told her to quit it because he is asking for something she doesn't want to give. It makes no sense to go further.


My ex asked for oral sex after several months of us being together, and I refused. I haven't seen or heard from him since. If he was my husband I probably would do it, but I am not doing certain things in casual relationships.


My husband and I spoke about everything before we got married. I wanted to know what he expected of me sexually and I told him what I wanted. I think before people settle in relationships they should put all the cards on the table face-up.


My husband wanted to spice up his birthday and asked if I would mind having a safe threesome — everything except penetration. I was extremely uncomfortable but it was my husband and we were newlyweds, so I didn't want to seem too boring. We got a woman and after a few minutes, he went against his word. I haven't told him how I feel and it's eating me up inside. I just cannot believe I allowed it to happen. I cannot walk away from the marriage, but I am sure he is always going to want threesomes and other things that I actually hate. I just never saw this side of him until now.


My ex tried to convince me to have a threesome. I told him straight that if we were going to continue, that thought would have to be tossed out. A couple of months after, I came home from work early because I got sick and there he was getting a threesome in my apartment. I almost went to jail. Once someone reveals something that you know for sure is not you, or it goes against how you live your life, quit that relationship immediately because it will only get worse.




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