Once a cheater…

All Woman

In order to really know what someone is capable of, check their history. Many women are guilty of not checking the histories of their men, and when the skeletons start popping up, it is catastrophe.


My man is a serial cheater but initially he was perfect until I noticed his patterns changed – he was now always out with friends and protective of his phone. I decided to make contact with one of his exes over social media and that was when she told me openly what happened. Ladies, search the history files of your man before it is too late.


It was when I dug into my ex's past that I realised that I was foolish to think it was that good. He was an abuser and a cheater and I simply had to escape that relationship by any means. Ladies, please do your homework no matter how good he looks and sounds.


My ex actually confessed that he cheated on his ex-wife and I actually thought he was done with that until he started dogging on me too and I realised that a cheater will always cheat.


It is important to find out as much as you can about his previous relationships before you get involved because a lot of women fall before we research and by the time we're ready to research, he has 10 women with 20 children outside.


Ladies it is not crazy to investigate especially if deep within you feel uncomfortable. Search him out before you lie down with him because I lived to regret that. I got pregnant and if I had taken the time to check his background I would have known better.




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