Baby mama drama

By Miss Kes

Thursday, November 22, 2018

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Some women have to deal with the spiteful mothers of their stepchildren, and this can get frustrating. Yes, they accept that their men come as a package with children, but many didn't sign up for the added drama, as explained by the women below.


Honestly, I was at a point where I was about to end my relationship because I was getting really tired and frustrated with my man's ex and her drama and non-stop stalking. I am a few weeks pregnant and this lady is making this journey more stressful than it needs to be. She calls him whenever she feels like and most times it is the in the middle of us sharing personal time – like she has a camera in our house or something. I am sick of it, and if things don't change in a few months, I am calling it quits.


It's not easy dealing with a man and his children and his ex who is the mother of his children. What used to really upset me is that whenever they had problems, he would come to me to vent, and when things got back to normal, I wouldn't hear anything. I would advise all women not to date men with children because you will take on a different level of stress.


I am convinced that my man's ex, who has children for him, is insane. The lady literally stalks me on social media and all I have to do is laugh. In the beginning it was really getting to me, but now all she does is write nasty comments on my posts. But I am not leaving my man.


I told myself at a young age that I wanted a man where I was the first for everything – marriage and children. Unfortunately I ended up with one who was separated and who has five children, and his wife is totally crazy! She sends me threats on a daily basis and even though I take them very seriously, I do love my man and I understand his situation. Life can be complicated at times and I am sharing this because I am sure other women are going through this. Just ignore the baby mama drama and live your life


The best way to handle baby mama drama is to spot a man with it and cross the street. I dated a man with the drama and it was the worst experience of my life. I encourage other women, if you can, as best as you can, to just avoid those men with baby mamas.

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