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Editorial

It's time to be afraid for our children

Tuesday, April 26, 2011



Any parent who really cares about the welfare of their children would be concerned after reading the results of a National Council on Drug Abuse (NCDA) survey conducted among Jamaican students in grades seven to 12 and which were published in this week's Sunday Observer.

According to the Global School-based Student Health Survey, conducted between April and June last year, a large number of our high school students are undergoing stress, show suicidal tendencies, are bullied, smoke and drink, are obese, lonely, and their parents, for the most part, are unaware.

Dr Ellen Campbell-Grizzle, director of information and research at the NCDA, told us that over the period of the survey, one out of five students admitted to considering taking their own lives and that the rate of suicidal fantasies is higher among girls — 25.7 per cent — compared to boys at 19.8 per cent.

For those who actually attempted suicide the numbers are almost even -- 23 per cent girls and 21 per cent boys.

Those are indeed frightening statistics and they give cause for even greater worry when we consider that earlier this month the Sunday Observer reported Dr Yvonnie Bailey-Davidson, president of the Jamaica Psychiatric Association, as saying that for the first time in her 16 years of practice she is seeing an increasing number of children with suicidal thoughts, as well as those who have attempted to end their own lives.

A similar experience was shared by Dr Tammy Haynes, a clinical psychologist, who said she found that bullying at school was influencing the thoughts of some of these children.

Dr Campbell-Grizzle also suggested a link to bullying among the average 50 per cent of students found by the Global School-based Student Health Survey to have been involved in physical fights over the past year.

Information unearthed by the study in relation to alcohol use among students also gave us cause for concern, as 52.5 per cent of respondents said they had consumed at least one alcoholic drink in the 30 days before they were questioned, with 35 per cent of the 13 to 15 year olds saying they had actually been drunk at least once in their lives. Even more alarming is the revelation that 80 per cent of the students said they had their first taste of alcohol before they were 14 years old.

In all of this we were not surprised to learn from the survey that most students admitted that their parents were unaware of what was happening with them.

It is a point we have argued ad nauseum in this space that a lot of the social ills affecting this country have their roots in the absence of proper parenting.

Ironically, there are many non-government, state and private sector organisations that host parenting seminars and workshops in order to equip people with the skills necessary to raise children.

The problem, we suspect, is that not all parents who really need the help provided by these highly commendable seminars and workshops are willing to accept the fact that they do need assistance.

Getting them to so admit will likely be difficult, especially those who are too busy trying to make ends meet. However, it can't be too much to ask that each of us, when we recognise that our neighbours are in need, give encouragement and support.

For the sake of our children and our country.



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COMMENTS (9)


6/15/2011
Hey, you?re the goto epxert. Thanks for hanging out here.
Gary Smith
4/28/2011
“a community that allows a large number of men to grow up in broken families, dominated by women, never acquiring any stable relationship to male authority, never acquiring rational expectations about the future — that community asks for and gets chaos.” The Moynihan Report and Ongoing Family Breakdown.
Gary Smith
4/27/2011
Observer I have made several posts but you have not put them up. Is freedom of speech alive?
Beresford Davidson
4/26/2011
The absence of proper parenting or the condoning of bad habits from bad influence, by one parent against the other is precisely the root of young people's problems in Jamaica, Europe and the Americas. The young people end up as victims of these psychological warfare between the external (school / peers and extended family) and internal where mother and father is at odds and when one manipulates finances to hurt the well thinking and efforts of the other. I saw it with mine own eyes.
Bryan Marron
4/26/2011
While I agree that the lack of proper parenting is the root to a number of the social ills facing our children. I do not think that the matter can solved by persons simply attending workshops and seminars. The fact is that far too many persons who are not ready or capable of parenting children are doing so. I recall when my son was born hearing two teens arguing if the teen boy was actually the father of the child. Both teens in my view were no where ready to be parents but they had a child.
robert chang
4/26/2011
@Kellie Stewart the same thing crossed my mind when I saw that pic, how can they be so insensitive to our youngsters? Not to mention the exploitive pics that are being taken of the poorer class jamaicans since of late, and being passed on to the American online newspapers by the elite Jamaicans.
ras london
4/26/2011
To solve these problems how about if we turn our attention back to God. We are getting so sophisticated that God has somehow become an antiquated notion. But if we teach our children to pray they would find hope in Christ. I too was once on the verge of suicide so it's not too late to save our children.
Kellie Stewart
4/26/2011
Any newspaper that cares about the welfare of children should be think twice before using pictures like the one used to illustrate the article.
crawford robert
4/26/2011
How do parents NOT notice their children are obese and intiate programs to reduce their children's weights??

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