MANY will argue that having God as part of your marriage or relationship strengthens and lengthens it, as His teachings will have an impact on how each member of the couple relates to the other.

And so, the statistics most times show that those who are lovers for life are also lovers of God, and followers of the Bible's principles.

Where the problems come in, are when one or the other spouse takes the doctrines to the extreme - read long skirts, unwillingness to experiment etc - leading to a situation where the passion is bound to die.

Fact is, those who've survived the relationship tests will tell you that being a Christian married couple is no excuse for not having fun in the bedroom. Intimacy is not something you should be ashamed of when married; after all you should be enjoying it. It is not a sin to be sexy for your spouse.
So:

1. Flirt.
Not because you are a grown married couple mean that you cannot flirt. Give him/her the shy smile; give them the careful but assertive approach.

2. Try new positions,
Experiment in the bedroom. You can leave missionary to the missionaries and try something new. You will have fun learning new things together.

3. Wear sexy lingerie.
Ladies, pull out your sexy lingerie. If you have none go and buy one - red or black will be fine. Give him something to look forward to when going to bed.

4. Cook her a romantic dinner.
Men, prepare a dinner for her and then you can be the dessert.

5. Go to a hotel or guesthouse.
If you have kids leave them to the grandparent or a trusted and reliable friend for the weekend and go to a hotel. Be sure that the hotels have nice rooms and add-ons that will help you have a loving time with each other.

6. Be spontaneous.
Do not plan for sex. Do not make it just a routine, make it spontaneous by just going home and having fun . It's not supposed to be a job. Do not let it seem like one.

7. Play games.
Strip me.just some fun games to keep the house hot. The games give you encouragement to explore and serves as a tease which takes the temperature from warm to hot and flavour from smooth to spicy.

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