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8 hot weeks of summer

Monday, June 29, 2009

THINGS are bound to get hotter over the next eight weeks, as the summer brings long, steamy days and cooler nights. And when things heat up, you can either ride out the heatwave like a champ, or wither up and lose the opportunity to take advantage of all summer has to offer.

This week we invite you to get hot, cool down and get hot again, with eight weeks of steamy action to share with your guy, to make this one of the more memorable summers ever.

WEEK 1: Give him a hand

THERE is no better time to be in love than in the summer - the possibilities are endless for enjoying these eight weeks! Some women like to leave everything up to their men but most men will admit that they like it when you give them a hand and help them bring out the tiger in you.

You can do your part by becoming more dominant and making an effort to have him purring. So let your imagination run wild, as you administer some of what he enjoys with a little twist of your own. So:

1. Go in for the kill and dedicate the entire week to being the "bedroom bully" night after night.

2. Considering you have the whole week ahead, you don't want to start off by being too aggressive and have nothing in store for the finish! Take it easy, the first day it can be all about some easy loving, cuddling, kissing, and just giving him some TLC.

3. By day two he should be a little more eager to see what you are coming with next and more than ready for your administrations. Don't reveal your total hand, whet his appetite by giving him a sneak peak of what's still in store.

4. For the next three days it's back to some easy loving - giving him enough to keep him totally satisfied, but leaving room for the grand finale where you will be preparing to totally blow his mind.

5. Then get really wild and just in case he can't handle some of what you have in store, then bring out the ropes! Yes, tie him up and love him without mercy! We guarantee he will be begging and pleading. but not for rescue.

WEEK 2: Is your love life lukewarm? Play with ice

GET wet and wild this summer in and outside the bedroom with your man. Now is the time to take out that hose you've stashed away, and start stocking up on ice cubes - you never know when they might come in handy. Be creative as you try to cool your temperatures and then raise it high again as you explore each other's bodies. You will find that around this season, water is not only essential for quenching your thirst, but its use in the bedroom can be optimised. So:

1. Play 'kiss and seek'. If you have a little time on your hands, you can get some juice, pour it in an ice tray and then freeze it. When the sun is burning hot the following day, then you can engage a game of 'kiss and seek'. Just simply begin by placing an ice cube in your mouth, kiss your guy and then have him pass the ice back to you. When it becomes smaller, you can hide it in a different section of your mouth and have him try and find it.

2. Cool him down. No doubt, your guy is going to need an occasional cooling down now and then. Grab some ice cubes and rub the ice on the sensitive areas of his body and then blow on the spot. This will definitely give him a thrill.

3. Get out the garden hose. Your neighbours will probably think you guys are being silly, but giving your man a good hose down in the burning sun is not only fun, it is very sensuous. Double the fun by having him turn those sprinklers on you while you are in your bathing suit or T-shirt. Who said you have to go to the beach to chill?

4. Clean the bathroom together. Yeah, we know getting him to clean the bathroom has always been one of the hardest things to accomplish. But this summer, give him another reason to be rushing to the showers like he heard a million dollars is coming through the pipe.
Tell him both of you will be doing it together and it will definitely be worth the while. Not only say it, but pull out all the stops as you scrub the bath together. And after you have finished doing so, you can give him a personal scrub and have him give you the same.

5. Give him the ultimate cool down. When the time gets really hot and you guys want to cool down, why not take yourselves to the kitchen and keep the refrigerator open a little as you make out? That way you feel cool even while you are burning up for each other inside.

WEEK 3: The guys talk

SPENDING time worrying about ideas to satisfy your partner is unnecessary this summer. The men have already spoken - it is just for you to listen and comply. Here are some tips from the men themselves - things they would not object to their partners trying with them.

1. Men like when you lick inside their navels. Tomlin James, a 28-year-old dispatcher recommends this: "Try placing a grape in his navel and remove it with your lips".

2. Men like when you caress them tenderly with your hands, lips, and especially your tongue. According to 22-year-old bartender, Kemar Miller: "Try a body shot - instead of using rum, pour honey all over your partner's body and use your tongue to eat it all up".

3. Men like when you locate and pay close attention to their 'weak spots'. According to Cleon Stewart, 26, "Some major turn-on spots are the nipples, behind the ears, and the neck - very important!" He cautions, however, "Some women like to bite the neck, that's not a turn-on for me".

4. Men like when women are sexy and engaging. "I like when a woman behaves sexy, she should not be shy. The lingerie has a lot to do with her being sexy too; I am a fan of mesh - it reveals just enough while leaving some things to the imagination," Stewart said.

5. Men like when women take control in the bedroom and are spontaneous. According to one man, "You have to be spontaneous. If we are out and the urge is there, you should not be afraid to do it in the car. The possibility of getting caught heightens the sensation."

6. It may be a bit hard to believe, but some men like when a woman is tender and pays close attention to their bodies. According to Stewart, "I want a woman who knows how to get me there. She should appreciate my body - she should not be afraid to kiss me anywhere".

WEEK 4: Get dressed up and play naughty

GETTING dressed up and playing naughty may be just the sensual boost your partner needs. Remember, getting dressed up does not automatically mean more clothes -less or none at all are also options. In addition, that fantasy your partner may have mentioned very innocently in passing? Fulfil it! So:

1. Surprise him with nothing but a long jacket on and a small lunch box in hand. The lunchbox should have only cream-filled candy in it. If he is still clueless, tell him the candy is the appetiser and you are the main course.

2. Playing hide and seek blindfolded with both hands tied is always a winner. Turn your bedroom into a playground and your body into the hiding spot. Is he a fan of chocolate? Find that crevice on your body, lie still and have him hunt for his chocolate.

3. Get fun lingerie in your partner's favourite colour, the more skin the better. Get dressed and lie in bed with the lights off. When your partner gets home, he will find you there with syrup or whipped cream - your choice. Your greeting should be, "Simon says take off your clothes..."

4. Card games can add some spice to your love life. Strip poker followed by a sensual massage with hands, feet, and anything else you can think of, can prepare him for an unforgettable evening.

5. Role-playing is some men's biggest fantasy. Dress up like a cook, and let him catch you in the kitchen or a house cleaner and let him catch you in the bedroom. To make it more intense, if you are normally meek and submissive, be demanding and domineering, or vice versa.

WEEK 5: LET'S EAT!

IT'S summer, a time when you are allowed to go wild and crazy with an array of food that is usually in abundance around this time. The experts will tell you that certain foods can do wonders for you in the bedroom, especially if you want to create that extra special moment. So have fun with food - we know your good looks and charm might be enough, but natural aphrodisiacs like chocolate will really come in handy and turn up the heat a notch. So:

1. Set up your personal salad bar. Make his stomach your personal salad bar where you can place an assortment of food for personal consumption. Make sure you have a mixture of cold fruit such as peaches and pine, and something warm and mellow like melted chocolate to alternate the temperature and drive him wild. Use both your hands and mouth to eat and have him feed you at intervals too.

2. Love in a lunch box. If he still has to go to work while you are home for vacation, there is no excuse for you missing out on all the summer fun. Pack him his own personal 'love box' with the right goodies to remind him of you throughout the day.

3. Create your own love menu. Cooking can be very relaxing when it's done as a couple. So this summer, turn up the heat a little bit more in the kitchen. After you have prepared a sumptuous yet light meal for two, make your way to the bedroom where you can spend time feeding each other.

4. Feed his cravings. Sure, when you're in bed, the only thing he'll really want to consume is you, but on one of these warm summer nights, you can give him a double dose of food by not giving of yourself only, but also by giving some of your most treasured offerings - like some sugar-coated strawberries and a few grapes.

5. Have him weak with the right food. Foods are generally supposed to build stamina, but trust us, the minute you introduce certain foods in the bedroom, he will become weak with want. Take a simple banana for example - it can take on a whole new meaning when you use it for demonstrative purposes.

6. Stock up on your 'love' foods. Natural aphrodisiacs such as oysters, chocolate, almonds and bananas can do wonders for getting both of you in the mood. For years they have been associated with sexuality and since we are on that topic, why not indulge this summer?

WEEK SIX: EXPERIMENT TIME!

IT is important not to allow your love life to fall into a pattern and become monotonous and boring! Boredom in the bedroom can lead your spouse to experiment with others. You don't want that! So try out all those new moves he's been begging you to do and all those you have been too shy to try! You can start by finding out from your man his greatest fantasies. If ever there was a time to fulfil them, it's now! It could be black leather sheets covered in oil, or having you tied to the bed post - whatever! If, however, his fantasies are just too much for you to try there are some really exciting things you can experiment with - albeit too risqué for print. But just hit Google, do a search and voilà! Instant summer heat.

WEEK 7: KISS ME HERE, KISS ME THERE

WHAT'S in a kiss? A whole lot if you know exactly what you are doing. There's an art to kissing and if you really want to blow your baby's mind and have the kisses lead to a whole lot more, then it's time to sharpen up on your lip-locking skills.

It's time to take kissing to the next level - no more 'choops' or chaste merging of lips. Let's focus on the many exciting kinds of kisses you can administer to the love of your life this summer.

Remember, experiment is the name of the game so don't get stuck in the traditional ways of kissing.
Go out and:

1. Kiss in the rain. It's now summer and even though it's hot, there's bound to be a few showers for you to get wet in. If you are super adventurous you will seize the moment and allow the rain to drench you as you are carried away in your own paradise.

2. Kiss in the shower. If you are one of those who will not venture outside once the rain is falling - well no big deal. Just get under the shower, hug him real close and show him that you know your stuff when it comes to kissing. The water will cool you down when things get heated!

3. Cold kiss. This one's really exciting and all it takes is an ice cube! Put one in your mouth, suck on it until your lips are cold, remove what's left of the ice and plant a kiss. This should be sending chills down your lover's spine.

4. Kiss his earlobe. You don't have to concentrate all your effort on his lips, there are other sensitive parts of his body that your lips can burn a fiery trail down - including his earlobes. Plant light kisses on his earlobe and watch him heat up.

WEEK EIGHT: IT'S MOVIE (AND BOOK) TIME

MANY books and novels are centred on romance, and there is a reason for this - romance sells! So this summer, why not take what you have read from your favourite Harlequin novels and put them into action? So:

1. Create your own little romance novel. If you have a lot of time on your hands this summer, why not write your own little romance novel together? This is something that will last for many summers to come and will rekindle the flames. So now is the time to become the sexy hero and heroine you have always read about in your favourite novels.

2. Make a home movie. If you feel you can trust your husband enough, why not become the stars in your own movie? Be creative and daring as you explore each other. Something like this can be pulled out of the closet when your love life starts getting dull.

3. Allow him to read to you. You know those steamy passages in your romance novel that have always left you blushing? Why not have him read them to you? And not only read, but act out exactly what is being read.

4. Get him the Kama Sutra. If you are still ignorant about the art of lovemaking, then you could invest in one of the many books available on the market for beginners and start learning together. There is no better time than now, so get to shopping. A particular favourite has always been the Kama Sutra.

5. There is nothing more romantic that cosying up on a warm summer night watching a steamy hot movie together. Most couples usually don't end up watching the complete movie, but at least watching it will ignite something in both of you that will only enhance lovemaking. So make a date to go movie shopping with your spouse for some saucy DVDs.

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