MANY guys have sexual fantasies that they conceal from their serious partners; and while some don't go beyond the daydreaming stage, others find ways of acting them out.
"Don't doubt it for a second, we all fantasise about the things we see in movies or in magazines, and we dream of having you act them out," 32-year-old accountant Donovan Spied said. "And this applies to all men, no matter what type you have."
But if they don't approach their partners, who or what do they turn to? All Woman asked a few men to answer this burning question.
I go to another girl who I have a mutual deal with. And I read and travel to explore other fantasies with her.
A lady of the night.
I go to the woman on the side, or to the women you pay. Because when money talks they will do everything.
I go to the girl I'm dealing with on the side. Certain things, like my deepest fantasies, I won't bring to my wife.
One of my deepest fantasies was to have a threesome and I approached another girl. I didn't approach my girlfriend because I didn't want her to feel disrespected or for the issue to mess with our relationship. But I've had girlfriends who've granted me the wish already.
And the other things on his mind...
It may come as a surprise to some women to learn that men do have other things on their minds -- well, some of them at least! There are times when he has fantasies that have nothing to do with the bedroom.
"When you're young you fantasise that you want a car by X age, then when you get a little older you fantasise about getting a house and having money," 38-year-old Leslie H said.
"Then when you're really mature you fantasise about having a family. But a woman is never far out of the picture. You want the car to impress the woman, the house to take the woman into, and the family to be centred around the woman."
Below other men tell their non-sexual fantasies:
Kenrick W, 51:
To win the lotto!
Rory T, 37:
Money! Lots and lots of money! Like a room full of money and when you open the door the money just starts falling out.
Delano M, 34:
Sexy cars! Cars that when you look at them you can compare them to a hot woman.
Calvin B, 49:
A huge house that I can sit back and make money from while working from a section so I wouldn't have to work outside anymore.
Johnson B, 43:
I want to feel the way Pharell Williams feels, I wanna be happy -- spiritually, physically emotionally, vocationally and financially happy.
Wayne W, 40:
To be a billionaire.