Summer sex 101: Men tell what they want

Donna Hussey-Whyte

Monday, June 28, 2010

SUMMER has officially started and the days and nights are about to get really hot. If you're to take the advice given by the men below, things will get hot both indoors and outdoors.

The men have spoken, and the overwhelming response is that they're wanting you to do their bidding and turn the heat up a few notches. What will get your man hot this summer? Read on. It's advice straight from the horses' mouths...

1. Tell him exactly what you want. "It doesn't make sense if she is lying there hissing her teeth after you move from one spot to the next, and she's not telling you to continue doing what you were doing because she liked it. We are not mind readers!" one man said.

2. Be more vocal. "While you don't need to yell and use curse words, showing your pleasure with little sounds will give him great pleasure and boost his self confidence," said another.

3. Be adventurous. "Experiment. Tie yourself to the bed in lingerie and wait until I come home," another man said.

4. Be spontaneous. "We should be able to stop at the side of the road and have sex. It should not be something for a particular place or time. I should be able to wake up in the middle of the night and spin her around and she's ready! We don't always want to go through the whole foreplay thing," said one fellow. "Sometimes we want spontaneity."

5. Sex in the water. "Nothing beats sex at the beach or in the pool, especially now that it is summer! Yes man, yes in the water!" one believer declared. "And," said another, "If you're not near the beach or a pool, the bathtub will do just fine."

6. Look sexy for him. Said one man: "Put on something sexy for bed and for wearing in the house. A simple towel will do. Why overdo it? We are only going to strip you naked anyway!"

7. Compromise. "Even if you don't feel like having sex, you should do it anyway, simply because he wants to," one man said.

8. Walk with condoms. "Women should walk with condoms, too; the men may not always have them. This is good especially since, then, we can have sex anywhere at any time!"

9. Learn to put on the condom. "Know how to put on the condom so you, too, can do the pop and roll action. Pop-it-out of the pack and roll it on," one man said. Another agreed, stating that when she helps it makes protection "even more fun".

10. Be as exciting as you want him to be. "With this, there is no chance of anyone crying of boredom," said another man.

11. Love him, too. "Men need foreplay, too. Don't forget that foreplay is just as exciting for men as it is for women," said one sage.

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