All Woman
Secrets married men don't tell their wives
Monday, March 08, 2010
WOMEN are not the only ones who are sneaky when it comes to withholding essential information. Many women go around thinking that they have things totally under control when it comes to their men, not knowing that men too -- even married men who have vowed to share all -- have secrets that they will never share. Here are some, as told by your husbands.
"I find other women attractive."
Don't expect him to share this bit of information any time soon with you, unless he thinks of you as one of the guys. After all, a lot of men have gotten grief for just staring too long at a member of the opposite sex! That's a sure tip-off to keep that fact to himself.
"Sometimes I want to get away from her."
Telling you he needs some space is like waving a red flag in front of a bull, so the best thing he can do is engineer his regular night out with his buddies -- that way, he avoids the arguments and gets the space he needs.
"I still fear commitment, even though we're married."
Just because he took the plunge and put the ring on your finger and made it to the altar doesn't mean he is totally comfortable with getting hitched. He may love you to pieces, but there is still a part of him that is fearful about the process, and sharing this with you will only leave room for an endless argument.
"I don't understand her."
It has been said that when it comes to relationships men and women are from two different planets. Many men have confessed to the fact that they just don't understand their women. Instead of making an issue out of it, they will just act as if they get you -- but they really don't.
"I don't enjoy her cooking."
When a meal is done with love it's hard for your poor husband to tell you that your cooking sucks. Maybe you should start tallying the number of times he's been taking you to the restaurant and missing dinner at home with the excuse that he already ate at work.
"I can't be with just her."
He has a need to be with other women and it has nothing to do with his love for you. There is no way he can open up to his wife about this driving force in his life that has him breaking his vows to you time and time again.
-- Cecelia Campbell-Livingston
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