Jamaica gets kudos for many things – from our dialect and music to our

coffee and prowess on the track – but historically, the prowess of our men in

bed leaves a lot to be desired. Indeed, Jamaican men do not have a great

reputation for being caring, considerate or creative between the sheets.

But alas, with time everything and everyone can change. With the dawn of

social media and knowledge being at our fingertips, some Jamaican men are

beginning to understand that the world does not revolve around their phallic

members and that how a woman feels during intercourse actually matters.

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Those who are interested are men who read and research. They are willing

to give as much as they take and are not afraid to test something new every

once in a while.

Read the following checklist to see if you can spot a man with sexual swag.

1. The way he licks his lips. Lip licking speaks to him being willing to

lick all lips. I’m just saying!

2. He is very curious about life. In this case, curiosity does not kill

the cat; it opens a man’s mind to the endless possibilities of coitus.

3. He thinks outside the box. Translation: you know the sex nah go normal,

girl!

4. He asks more about you, your likes and dislikes and does not spend all

his time talking about himself. Yup, a man who is interested in your peeves and

passions is filing away information that he may find useful at a later date.

5. He takes care of himself. Not the metrosexual kind that is in love

with his mirror. Nope. The dude who takes good care of his health generally is

usually one that is willing to go the extra mile to take care of you.

6. Every time he touches you, even if it is your cheek, he watches your

reaction. This is a dude that is feeling out how to approach you. The way he

blows in your ear, nibbles your neck (note, I didn’t say hickey monster),

kisses the back of your hand is all in keeping with him gauging how your pupils

dilate and for how long you hold your breath each time.

7. He kisses both your palm and the back of your hand. Girl! You know a

regular ‘jo-smo’ only pays attention to ogling your chest and what is in your

tight pants.

8. He takes you on a date to the movies and does not try to grab at your

private parts as soon as the lights go out. Yes, child, he is a keeper!

9. He kisses you without sticking his tongue down your windpipe as if he

is trying to take your temperature. Indeed, his kisses are sensual, not minor

throat surgery!

10. His attention to detail when it comes to you is uncanny. Whatever you shared from the first time he started courting you, he not only recalls but puts that information to good use.

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