We would all love to think that our partners are always totally honest and forthcoming with us, right? Well, that is in utopia and none of us have ever been there. Our reality is that everyone, even the most loving of couples, has a few secrets or things they wish to keep to themselves. The issue is not that their mates do not know, but really if what they are hiding can negatively impact the union. These are just a few things that can come between a couple and their need for trust:

1. Money: If he got a

promotion or won some money gambling he is keeping it all to himself.

2. Porn stash: The less she

knows what really floats his boat, the better her peace of mind.

3. Mistress/ side piece:

That is information best kept to himself.Â

4. Black book: He better

write it all down in code too.

5. Extra cell phone: Stands

to reason since he already has a mistress.

6. New credit card: She

cannot just take it and have some retail therapy.

7. Dirty dishes: When she

puts him on a diet and he cheats in the middle of the night while she is

asleep.

8. An alternate address:

This is where the credit card statement goes.