6 ways to overcome gym anxiety
WALKING into a gym for the first time — or even after a long break — can be intimidating. The unfamiliar equipment, the fear of judgment, and the pressure to “fit in” can create serious gym anxiety that holds people back from starting or continuing their fitness journey.
“This type of anxiety is more common than most people realise, and it affects beginners and experienced gym-goers alike,” said fitness instructor Amfroy Lyn.
The good news is that gym anxiety can be overcome with a few mindset shifts and practical strategies, he said.
“By building confidence gradually, focusing on your personal progress, and learning how to navigate the gym environment, you can turn the gym into a space of empowerment rather than fear.”
Here’s how he said you can get past the nerves and start training with confidence.
1)Start with a plan
“One of the biggest triggers of gym anxiety is not knowing what to do once you get there. Walking in without a plan can make you feel lost or self-conscious,” Lyn said.
“Combat this by preparing a simple workout ahead of time — whether it’s a beginner weightlifting routine, a cardio session, or a bodyweight circuit. You’ll feel more in control and less likely to wander around awkwardly.”
2) Go during off-peak hours
“Gyms are often busiest early in the morning or right after work. Try visiting during quieter hours (late morning, early afternoon, or late evening) when there are fewer people around,” Lyn said. “A less crowded space can help ease the pressure of feeling watched or rushed while using equipment.”
3) Use headphones as a mental shield
“Wearing headphones and listening to your favorite playlist or podcast can help you focus inward and create a “bubble” that blocks out distractions,” Lyn said.
“Music also boosts confidence, reduces stress, and helps set the pace of your workout.”
4) Try a beginner class or bring a friend
“Group classes designed for beginners can be a welcoming way to ease into a fitness routine. Alternatively, bringing a workout buddy can make the environment feel less intimidating and more enjoyable,” Lyn said. “Having someone to laugh with or learn alongside can take the edge off.”
5)Repeat until it’s familiar
“Like anything new, the gym gets easier with repetition. The first few visits might feel uncomfortable, but the more you go, the more familiar the space becomes,” Lyn said. “Over time, you’ll start to feel like you belong there. Focus on your progress, not perfection.”
6) Remember: Everyone’s focused on themselves
“It’s easy to feel like all eyes are on you, but most people at the gym are too focused on their own workouts to notice anyone else,” Lyn said.
“No one starts as an expert, and everyone was new at some point. Remind yourself that growth takes time, and you’re doing the hard but rewarding work of showing up.”
