The A to Z of Wedding Day Plans
When you’re deep in the sparkle of wedding planning — choosing flowers, finalising menus, and finding the dress — it’s easy for small but important details to slip through the cracks. Yet, these overlooked elements can make or break the smooth flow of your big day. It’s easy for couples to be caught off guard by things they never even considered.
To make sure you’re covered, here’s an alphabetical checklist of those “oh no!” wedding details — along with pro tips to keep things running beautifully from “I do” to the last dance.
Accommodation for theWedding Night
Your first night as a married couple should be special and stress-free. Whether it’s a luxurious hotel suite or a charming guesthouse, confirm your booking early. If you’re staying in the same room you used to get dressed, ensure someone is assigned to have it cleaned and the personal items of your bridal party removed. If you are getting ready at a different location from your wedding night stay, plan how your personal items will be packed and moved. Assign someone to collect make-up kits, shoes, and your other personal items. If you did not get to pre-check-in prior to the wedding, ensure you arrange a late check-in and have your overnight bags delivered there ahead of time so you’re not carrying luggage in your wedding finery.
Cake Game Plan
Your cake is more than dessert — it’s a centrepiece. But what happens after the last slice is served? Decide in advance who will store leftovers, save the top tier (if tradition matters to you), and transport it safely.
Departure Vehicle for the Couple
You’ll thank yourself later for planning how you’re leaving your reception. Is it a vintage car or a sleek vehicle. Are you driving yourself? If not, make sure the driver knows the exact departure time and location. Either way, you need to ensure you have a reserved parking spot for ease of access when departing. Stock it with bottled water and maybe a playlist for the ride.
End-of-Night Instructions
Your wedding day is a whirlwind — you won’t be the one packing up candles, signage, or gifts in the wee hours of the morning. Prepare a clear list for your planner or designated helper, noting where items should go and who they belong to. Include décor, rentals, personal items, and leftover food or drinks.
Emergency Kit
Think of it as your bridal first-aid box. Include pain relievers, Band-Aids, mints, hairpins, fashion tape, stain remover, and anything else you might need for those “just in case” moments. Assign a bridesmaid or your planner to keep it nearby. It’s not just handy for you but also in case a guest needs something urgent. They do have emergencies and wardrobe malfunctions, too!
Guest Guidance Post-Ceremony
After you say “I do,” don’t leave your guests guessing. Have your wedding officiant or emcee announce what’s next — cocktail hour location, group photo instructions, or where to find seating charts. This simple step prevents confusion and keeps your event flowing seamlessly.
Licence Logistics
Your marriage licence is the ultimate keepsake, but it’s also a legal document. Have it prepared in advance and bring it to the ceremony along with nice pens for signing. Make sure you know who will be responsible for mailing it back to the appropriate office.
Pens that Pop
It’s a small touch that makes a big difference in photos — swap the cheap pen for a stylish pen for signing your marriage licence and guest book. Choose something elegant that complements your wedding style and won’t run out of ink mid-wedding.
Reserved Signs
For VIP seating — parents, grandparents, close family — make sure you have clear “Reserved” signs for ceremony seating. It’s a thoughtful touch that ensures important guests don’t end up in the back row. Always advise those persons pre-wedding to look out for the sign so they know they fall in that category.
Vendor Meals
Your vendors work long hours to make your day perfect and feeding them is both kind and practical. Ask your caterer about vendor meal options and timing so they’re fed without missing key moments they need to capture or coordinate.
Tip: Treat this list as part of your wedding day master plan. Share it with your wedding planner or a responsible friend, so you can focus on what matters — soaking in every magical moment.
Shikima Hinds
Managing Director
Shikima Hinds Events Concierge
tel. 876-925-4285 or 876-361-0910
email: shikima@shikimahinds.com
www.shikimahinds.com
