Remember the shut-ins during the holiday season
IT is estimated that during the holiday period, millions of travellers descend on airports, buses, trains, and every other means of transportation to be with their families, friends and loved ones for Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, and other celebrations. In Jamaica, come hell or high water, households swing into high gear in December.
The pungent aroma of fruits that have been soaking for almost a year permeates the air, ready to be transformed into rich Christmas puddings. Sorrel steeped in ginger, pimento and cloves fills kitchens with its unmistakable scent. And before you can say the word Christmas, families are seated around the table with stuffed roasted chicken, juicy ham decorated with pineapple rings and toothpick-pierced cherries, giving thanks for being together and for whatever blessings have been provided.
I am reminded of a family friend, Aunt Ceslyn (God bless her soul), who was always invited to our Christmas dinner. She faithfully offered to do the pre-meal prayer. She thanked God for what was provided, prayed for those in need, and asked Him not to let us overeat. And guess who did? She also never failed to call me aside, whispering, “You have a container so I can take home a little extra?”
But many are not as fortunate. Some people have no choice about where they spend the holidays, and one of the last places anyone wants to be is a hospital, long-term nursing facility, rehab centre, or simply stuck at home alone. Some who are now confined to these facilities were, in their better years, the “life of the party”. Yet as time passes, mobility challenges or debilitating illnesses may leave them unable to care for themselves. They deserve compassion and love from those entrusted with their care, so they do not feel forgotten — especially during the holidays when they cannot be with friends and family.
In doing a “round robin” of several facilities, I sought to learn how nurses, health-care workers, and volunteer groups keep patients’ spirits lifted during the holiday season.
At the Morningside long-term facility in Kingston, staff go to great lengths to bring joy to residents. A festive atmosphere is created with a beautifully decorated Christmas tree, bright ornaments, and carol singing led by members of staff. Residents are dressed in their favourite outfits to greet visiting family and friends.
At the May Pen Infirmary and other infirmaries operated by the local authorities of Jamaica, special effort is made to provide extra care during the yuletide season for vulnerable people who cannot be cared for by relatives. Staff members go the extra mile to ensure residents enjoy Christmas with lively carol singing, colourful decorations, and tasty treats.
A psychiatric nurse at the River Oaks Treatment Centre in the United States shared that each year staff members decorate a Christmas tree and invite patients to participate. Patients create ornaments during art therapy sessions, and these are proudly displayed on the tree in the common area. Seeing their handiwork evokes a comforting sense of home.
I recall my teenage years, when I was part of a youth club affiliated with my church. Groups of us visited nursing homes at Christmas to deliver gifts, sing carols, and even dance with residents who were still mobile. They appreciated those moments more than we ever realised.
According to Marjorie Sinclair, director of nursing at Baywest Wellness Hospital in Montego Bay, “Christmas can be an emotional time for patients. We continue to open our doors to caring and generous church groups, volunteers, and service clubs who bring care packages, pray, and sing carols. It is heart-warming to see the positive reaction from our patients to such kind gestures.”
Others shared that they arrange holiday Zoom parties for patients whose families live far away. This simple act helps patients feel included in their family circle, giving them treasured moments of connection.
So as you prepare to celebrate the season of good cheer, let us remember those who may be alone. A simple act of kindness can brighten their day and remind them they are not forgotten..
Maxine J Brown is a creative writer.