Un-friend the feed: Should we log our kids out?
IN today’s world, social media has become an unavoidable part of daily life for both adults and children. The difference, however, is that adults are already emotionally and socially developed. Children are still forming the habits, skills and perspectives that will shape their lives.
Across Jamaica and around the world, many parents now describe managing their children’s screen time as one of the most difficult challenges of modern parenting. Young people are spending increasing amounts of time online, scrolling through videos, trends, and digital conversations that compete directly with school, family interaction and real-life experiences.
Childhood has traditionally been a period defined by exploration, friendships and face-to-face interaction. Yet today, many children are spending long hours indoors on their devices, missing opportunities to develop social confidence and interpersonal skills that come from engaging with the world around them.
Social interaction plays a critical role in childhood development. It is through everyday experiences that children learn how to communicate, resolve disagreements, build resilience, and form healthy relationships. When much of that interaction takes place through screens rather than in person, there is a risk that some of those important developmental experiences are diminished.
There is also the question of how social media shapes the way young people see themselves. Many platforms present a carefully curated version of life filled with influencers, luxury lifestyles, and viral trends. For children and adolescents who are still developing their sense of identity, constant exposure to these images can create unrealistic expectations and unhealthy comparisons.
Like many Jamaicans, I occasionally scroll through social media late at night and notice something that gives pause. It is not uncommon to see videos of schoolchildren participating in TikTok dances or recording online trends while on school grounds. While some may see these moments as harmless fun, it does raise simple questions: When are they finding the time? Should they not be focused on learning or participating in activities that support their growth and development?
None of this is to suggest that social media is entirely negative. Used responsibly, these platforms can support creativity, learning, and connection. They allow young people to express themselves, access information, and maintain friendships across distances.
Should social media impact on children lead to restrictions?
The challenge is not the existence of social media. The challenge is the scale and intensity of its use among children and adolescents. Research has increasingly raised concerns about the impact of excessive social media use on young people’s mental health and well-being. Studies by child and adolescent specialists at Johns Hopkins University have linked heavy social media use to poor sleep, increased social comparison, exposure to cyberbullying, and encounters with harmful online content.
Similarly, the World Health Organization has reported a growing number of adolescents displaying signs of problematic digital media use. In a large international survey of almost 280,000 children ages 11, 13 and 15 across 44 countries, approximately 11 per cent showed patterns of behaviour associated with problematic social media use, including difficulty controlling their usage and experiencing negative consequences as a result.
These concerns have prompted governments around the world to examine whether stronger safeguards are needed. Australia recently implemented a ban on social media use for children under the age of 16, while countries such as Norway, Denmark, Malaysia, and France have also begun exploring legislative approaches to restricting access for younger users.
Parenting and public education alone may not be enough
Typically, these discussions focus on platforms widely considered to be highly addictive, including
TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat and YouTube, while messaging services and educational tools are often treated differently.
The reality is that parenting and public education alone may not be enough to address the scale of the challenge. Many parents are themselves struggling to manage their children’s digital habits, particularly when social media platforms are deliberately designed to maximise engagement and keep users online for longer periods. For this reason, it is reasonable to consider whether some level of restriction may be necessary.
The more important question, however, is not simply whether restrictions should exist, but what form they should take. Should there be age verification requirements? Stronger parental control systems? Restrictions during school hours? Or broader limitations similar to those being introduced in other jurisdictions? These are complex questions that deserve careful national consideration.
In Jamaica, no decision has yet been taken regarding the introduction of such measures. Any serious policy discussion would require consultation with parents, educators, child psychologists, civil society groups, and young people themselves. It must also balance the need to protect children with important principles such as freedom of expression and access to information. What is clear, however, is that the issue can no longer be ignored.
Over the coming year, Jamaica would benefit from a structured national conversation involving key stakeholders to examine the impact of social media on children and to determine whether appropriate safeguards or restrictions should be introduced.
Schools can help
At the same time, education and awareness must remain central to the response. Schools can help equip students with the skills to navigate the digital world safely, including online responsibility, critical thinking and media literacy. Parents also play a vital role in setting boundaries, particularly when it comes to late-night screen use, which can significantly disrupt sleep and healthy development.
Ultimately, the objective is not simply to restrict technology. The objective is to ensure that our children grow up healthy, confident, and socially connected in an increasingly digital world.
Social media will continue to evolve, and it will remain a powerful part of modern life. Our responsibility as a society is to ensure that its influence supports the development of our children rather than quietly reshapes childhood itself. That conversation must begin now.
Dr Chris Tufton, CD, MP, is Jamaica’s minister of health and wellness