‘I’m alive and that’s what matters’
AMELIA had plans. Culinary arts school. A career. A future she had already started building. But on the night of November 25, 2024 all of it was shattered in the split second it took for a car to lose control on a dark road travelling through western Jamaica. She was 18.
She had been drinking and was under the influence of alcohol. Unfortunately, so was her driver. The crash left her paralysed from the waist down.
Amelia was in the back of a private motor car heading home from a beach party in the early hours of the morning. She was with her cousin, her cousin’s boyfriend who was driving, and two female friends.
She remembers nothing about the impact. Fortunately, none of the passengers died in the crash, but all sustained serious injuries and fractures.
“I woke up in the hospital. The nurse told me not to move because they didn’t know what was wrong with me,” she said. Doctors later confirmed that her spinal cord had been severely damaged.
Today, at 19, Amelia relies on a wheelchair to get around, a reality that reflects Jamaica’s ongoing road safety crisis.
“What often gets lost in the conversation about road crashes in Jamaica is the aftermath. Every year, families across the island are left navigating a reality that extends far beyond the point of impact,” said Paula Fletcher, executive director of the National Road Safety Council. “Reckless driving and alcohol-impaired driving are causes of profound, long-term suffering for survivors and their loved ones.”
For Amelia, the weeks after the crash were marked by intense pain and uncertainty. She spent nearly four months flat on her back before undergoing spinal surgery in April 2025. During that time, she could not sit upright.
“I couldn’t sit up before the surgery,” she explained. “Now I can help myself more. I’m happy about that.”
Medical experts say spinal cord injuries sustained in road crashes often carry long-term consequences. Dr Amoy Henry, at the St Ann Health Department of the North-East Regional Health Authority, explained that road accidents may cause spinal cord injuries leading to long-term wheelchair confinement, which can significantly affect both physical and mental health.
“Depending on the level of injury, a person may experience paraplegia, affecting the lower body, or quadriplegia, also known as tetraplegia, affecting all four limbs,” she said.
For Amelia’s family, the crash brought major changes. She now lives with her mother, a dedicated sanitation worker, and her grandparents, including her grandfather who is blind. They assist with her daily needs and support her recovery.
“She can manage some things on her own but we still help her,” her grandfather said. “Sometimes we take her outside so she can get some fresh air and put her back in.”
Amelia also travels to Kingston periodically for therapy and medical reviews, which requires a specially arranged vehicle. “Whenever she has to go, the family makes sure a vehicle is available to accommodate her and her wheelchair,” the grandfather explained.
Her mother said the experience has been difficult but she remains hopeful. “Her injury affected me a lot at first but I don’t stress about it anymore. She’s doing much better than before, and I’m thankful for that. I know she will heal, no matter how long it takes.”
Her grandmother and aunt also shared their faith and optimism. “It is a bit stressful knowing she is not walking, but I thank God every day that she is here smiling and laughing with us,” her grandmother said. “Amelia is here every day, happy as if she can walk. She has a lot of faith and believes she will walk. This has been a lesson for her and for us to be careful on the road, to pray, and hope that when we travel, we reach home safe and sound.”
Before the crash, Amelia had clear plans. She had completed certification levels one and two in food preparation and intended to continue her studies through HEART/NSTA Trust in order to pursue a career in culinary arts. Those ambitions are now on hold.
“Right now, therapy comes first,” she said.
After months of physiotherapy Amelia continues to work toward regaining strength. She incorporates exercises into her routine, including water-based movement at a nearby beach to help rebuild muscle function in her legs. Though she sometimes feels overwhelmed, she copes by listening to music, talking with friends and family, and leaning on her faith.
Doctors have given her an estimated 80 per cent chance of regaining mobility with continued rehabilitation, though the timeline remains uncertain.
Despite everything, Amelia remains focused on what is most important.
Framing her survival as both a second chance and a warning, she is now speaking directly to women, calling for sharper awareness and accountability, especially after a party, a long night, or moments of exhaustion.
“I’m alive, and that’s what matters,” she said. “Your life can change in an instant. Don’t drink and drive, and don’t get into a car with anyone who is under the influence of alcohol.”