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Men confess: Why it’s hard to be faithful
All Woman, Confessions
 on January 8, 2018

Men confess: Why it’s hard to be faithful

By Miss Kes 

Below, straight from the horses’ mouths, are reasons men give for being unable to remain faithful, especially in long-term relationships.

Tony:

Men are not built to be with one woman and so it makes it a headache for them. It’s all about the way we were made. A man will marry a woman and love her deeply, but after a while things get boring, and there is Sue with her sexy self and it just excites him all over again. It’s just what it is.

Mark:

It’s hard because women now are so easy to get. As a matter of fact, they wear nothing so that alone makes a man think it is impossible to just look. Also, I’m a married man and the more I tell women that I’m married is the more they want me. So how’s a man supposed to stay loyal?

Richie:

I’m not saying it’s not possible, but bwoy, it’s hard. I’m married for five years and one and two times yes, some bun gwaan. I’m trying to keep myself calm though because I really don’t want to lose wifey.

Lamar:

No man can be loyal to a woman for more than a year. No matter what a man tells you, it’s not possible.

Dave:

As a married man, it has been most difficult to stay true. But I’m trying hard. However, it is just exciting for a man to get into something in ‘secret’.

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