The alluring Cassandra Johnson lends credence to the saying that behind every successful man is a woman. Cassandra, a no-nonsense, articulate, stylish femme who has mastered the art of ‘stopping’ a room, steps boldly in six-inch Louboutins or strappy Guccis, guided by hubby Avery Johnson, the one-time American basketball player, now the current head coach of the New Jersey Nets. She’s not only fun to be around, but treats all as fab equals.

We’re at the Kentucky Derby and talking about her honeymoon two decades ago at Sandals Ocho Rios, family, the Royal Wedding, the importance of parenting and her Philip Treacy hat.

What’s your favourite cocktail?

Kir Royal.

Socialite or homebody?

Socialite.

Flats or stilettos?

Stilettos… I wear flats on the tennis court.

What’s your must-have accessory?

My Birkin handbag.

What’s your style?

Eclectic and alluring.

What’s in your handbag?

Purell and a scarf.

What perfume are you spraying?

Kim Kardashian by Kim Kardashian.

Who does your hair?

Sharena Scott at Vision of Elegance Hair Design in Spring, Texas.

Where do you do your nails?

Orchid Nails.

When you’re not working, where’s the best place to find you?

At the gym or on the tennis courts.

What’s in your car stereo/on your iPod?

Motown.

How do you balance being married to a successful man, raising children, running a household, and looking like a movie star?

(Lol) Hire an assistant and make exercise a priority. You need a lot of energy.

What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?

Keep your home private.

What’s your idea of the perfect date?

Dinner at a great restaurant, and music.

What projects are you working on?

A graduation party for my daughter and working with the American Heart Association.

Who or what inspires you?

Mrs O — Michelle Obama.

And 10 years from now?

Working on career goals that I have not accomplished.