A chance to exhale
Battling Garfield Wilson wins Heineken trip to pitch-side in Germany
For most people, a trip to Germany to watch the UEFA Champions League final would be the ultimate dream but for Garfield Wilson it is a much-needed breath of joy in the middle of a life filled with many battles.
At 55, Wilson has carried more weight than most men would admit. He is the proud father of two children: a 23-year-old daughter who bravely fights a rare form of cancer while getting treatment in the United States, and a 31-year-old son living with autism.
They both remain his everyday anchors and a big part of his reason for living. That strength is rooted in the unwavering love that has shaped his life for decades.
Wilson’s foundation of love is built on his wife, a woman he met in the summer of 1990.
“It was love at first sight,” said Wilson as he remembered how easy it felt.
They started dating a year later, and 15 years after that, they got married. Now, with more than three decades of partnership and love behind them, Wilson calls their relationship, “proof that something lasting can come from one simple summer spark”.
The two have built a life that is filled with love, laughter but Wilson admits that some days he finds it hard to keep smiling as he looks at the struggles his children are facing while knowing he cannot do anything but be there for them.
“I cry a lot,” he said without shame. “I look at the news, see everything happening and all the medical breakthroughs… and I say to myself, why can’t I find a cure for my daughter?”
The question hangs heavy in his heart but is not a cry for sympathy. Wilson does not want pity — he is bold, outspoken and says what is on his mind.
He is also very reflective, always thinking about how his words might affect someone before he says them out loud. “I don’t mince words [but] I won’t embarrass you either,” declared Wilson.
The keen family man makes monthly trips to the United States to visit his daughter during her treatments, spending every second he can with her. “Time is precious and it is the only thing we can’t buy,” noted Wilson.
Managing his son’s autism is a full-time commitment as well, one that requires patience, understanding, and a kind of quiet strength that Wilson has come to master.
“Some days are harder than others,” he shared. “My son reminds me what true presence looks like because he sees things as they are.”
Even in the midst of heartache, Wilson continues to find moments of joy — anchored by his love for family, football, and his Heineken.
A past traveller with the brand, he credits Heineken for going beyond the expected, creating experiences that feel fresh, inclusive, and deeply connected to the people they serve.
He recalls a time when Heineken was seen as something reserved for polished settings and special occasions.
“It used to be the ‘big man’ drink,” he smiles. “These days, it still holds that premium feel — but now, it’s about real moments. Watching a match with your adult sons, enjoying a cold Heineken together — it’s about shared experiences with a world-class beer,” said Wilson.
He considers Heineken a premium brand with purpose and argued that the beer makes experiences 10 times more enjoyable because it’s uniquely tailored to real fans.
In the quiet chaos of hospital visits, therapy sessions, and endless waiting rooms, Wilson has forgotten what it feels like to simply enjoy something for himself.
He continues to look toward the brighter side of life because he has no choice but to find light in dark places and that is what this trip represents for Wilson: not only a love for football, but a rare and necessary moment of emotional rest. A chance to remember who he is outside of the struggle and to simply be happy.
Wilson won the trip after Heineken challenged retailers across the island to hit consistent monthly sales targets over a three-month period.
It wasn’t easy, but Wilson delivered through his business, Mandeville Liquor Store.
As a national retailer of Heineken, he understood the power of the brand and leaned into it. Month after month, he exceeded expectations — not just selling beer, but creating a space where customers could feel connected to something bigger.
His win in the customer promotion segment wasn’t just a professional victory. It was personal. It was a moment of recognition after years of pouring everything he had into his family, his business, and his community.