Guys uncensored: The ultimate turn-ons
We asked the question and you guys responded. What are the subtle things about your girl that turn you on? Thanks to men like ‘Hopeful contributor to the development of the Jamaican woman’ for the lengthy list. To the others who called and emailed, thanks a bunch. Here’s your list in no particular order:
1. I like when a woman has strong, ‘well-dressed’ legs, that is, legs that are discreetly noticeable without her having to wear outrageous b-rider shorts.
2. Girls with properly groomed hair and nails, not too much fancy acrylic. Natural-coloured french tips are most fabulous.
3. When she can wear cornrows and plaits and still be fully confident.
4. A woman who is able to conduct conversations on a variety of topics.
5. When she looks and acts like she’s taken, even when she’s single.
6. What’s sexy? Weekend by Burberry and/or most vanilla-based products.
7. Natural, well-done eyebrows – easy on the eyeliners.
8. A smile that is confident and radiant.
9. A woman who has rhythm
10. When she has a sense of humour, and can laugh at even the corny jokes.
11. When she is able to, in a very subtle way, teach a man a few tricks that will add to his personal development.
12. When she can be a woman without having to be an activist preaching ‘a woman time now’.
13. I like my girlfriend’s eyes, especially when she looks at me like she needs me. I like the way she laughs, and of course her breasts are a definite boost.
14. I like flat stomachs, a fresh feminine smell, smooth skin and a nice butt.
15. I like nice round hips and a navel ring. Goddamn, you can’t beat that!
16. When she trembles after you know what…
17. I like a woman who’s good with kids. All that love just makes me want her to be good with me too.
18. When she’s a lady. I love the knife-and-fork, good-posture, good-etiquette type. I hate bad-word cussers.
19. When she can buy her own credit… that’s a plus!
20. Those with the butts you can have dinner on.
21. For me, it’s usually the physical appearance that gets me interested first. The three Bs – breasts, butt and belly must all be in good order. A woman with a gut, especially a young one, is usually a quick turn-off.
22. She must be very meticulous about her personal hygiene, especially
her breath and body odour.
Beautiful skin is good too.
23. I simply love good legs on a
woman…. long, toned, lightly
covered with baby hair, and
complemented by a soft slope of
hips and a good, rounded butt.
24. Seeing her flat stomach brings an
instant erection. Her lips too. wow!
What about men who want to get a good woman?
This is in response to last week’s ‘Irresistible man magnet’ piece. This gentleman called in, a bit peeved, that we always seem to neglect the fact that guys too have a hard time finding a good woman. Interested ladies can send emails to allwoman@jamaicaobserver.com.
I’m a professional man who is having a bit of a problem finding a mate. I’m an older guy, divorced with kids and I’m not into running around. The women I find are either already taken or not interested. I’m not a bar person and I don’t believe in going to church for that purpose. I’m a sports enthusiast, active in my community and with my children. I’m looking for someone in their 30s, a professional woman who is independent and looking for companisionship. Where do I go to find her? There’s really no place in the city to just sit down and meet people. What do you do if you don’t go to the bars or the club, and are not one of those who go to church for the ladies? Where do you go if you just want to have a fun time and meet someone?
