Live your fantasy
Almost everyone has sexual fantasies. Even though many people may not look like the kinky types, the truth is, many wouldn’t mind being spanked, tied up, tickled or blindfolded. But how can these deep fantasies be brought to life? Bridget Thompson-Dunkley, romance author, gives some tips.
1. Say what you want
If you want to be whipped then why not just say so? Tell your partner exactly what you want, and he may just deliver, especially if it is within reason. It makes no sense for you to be beating around the bush when it comes to your sexual fantasies as this will only lead to pent up sexual frustration which could ultimately be detrimental to your relationship.
2. It’s time for a mindset shift
Let’s be truthful, living out sexual fantasies can be fun as it can open up a whole new dimension in your sex life. It is important that when you enter your bedroom you leave all your reservations and hang-ups at the bedroom door. Being sexually intimate with someone is as much about being open and comfortable with them as it is about being receptive to their idea of pleasure. While it is important to set boundaries, it is also important to be open to what your partner has to say.
3. Give it a test run
Before the main event, it is important for you to build momentum. Why not start from earlier on in the day by sending your partner a steamy text message or putting out your lingerie for the night in full view of your partner? By starting with small gestures such as this it will make your partner warm up to the idea as well as be more excited as you both work your way up to the big finale.
