Signs it’s time to stop pursuing her
So you’re attracted to her but she refuses to give you the time of day. Should you still pursue her or should you just let it go? Here are five clues that you need to stop.
1. She doesn’t respond
You have repeatedly called her, sent messages on Whatsapp, waved to her in a crowd, and even tried to visit her. But still she hasn’t given you the time of day. Maybe it’s time for you to take a hint. If a woman is not willing to share her time with you then she is not interested in you or she may just be playing a mind game to see how far you would go to get her attention. Whether or not you are willing to go the extra mile is your decision.
2. She only calls you when she needs something from you
If she is only calling you when she needs a favour or she is in a sticky situation and needs you to come to the rescue, she is not willing to take on the title of being your woman. For her, it’s like you’re a puppet on a string.
3. She has too much baggage
If being with her means that you are going to invite a lot of unnecessary trouble into your life then maybe you should just leave it alone. Instead of enjoying the time you have together you will have to be helping her sort her life out. If anything you will be more stressed most of the time, than relaxed. And so it’s best if you just leave her alone.
4. She doesn’t value your time
So she finally decides to meet up with you for ice cream and then she calls to cancel. And it’s not just one time; it’s happened multiple times. It is evident that she doesn’t value your time or respect you enough to make it at least once. Take a hint and take a hike. If a woman is into you she will literally bend over backwards to sustain a relationship with you.
5. She keeps on clowning you, even in front of her friends.
It’s one thing to say something disrespectful to you but it’s a completely different thing to say hurtful words when others are watching. How are you to respond without being disrespectful yourself? The playing field is not level and so it is best for you to retreat.
