Would you give your man a free pass?

When we enter a relationship, we tend to leave certain aspects of our lives behind, and sometimes in an attempt to regain our identity we’ll rebel.

And the rebellion sometimes causes issues in our relationships.

But could all this be avoided if we allowed our partners some breathing space to do that one thing that would make them happy? Ladies, would you give your man a free pass, a one-day pass to do the things that he always wanted to do, but gave up once you started dating?

Melinda, 37:

Not going to happen. I already know what my man would do with his free one-day pass and it’s nothing good, so no!

Bridgette, 39:

If I was to give him a free pass I would have to get one also, and I know he wouldn’t be giving me that pass anytime soon.

Nichelle, 33:

I would give him a pass but a one-hour pass, take it or leave it.

Arlene, 42:

A pass to do all the yard work around the house that he has been too lazy to do. He wouldn’t be getting any pass from me to do anything that I know deep down inside will anger me.

Angela, 37:

A pass to do what? I wouldn’t be able to sleep knowing he was out all night doing only God knows what. I would have too many questions and I’m not sure I would be able to handle the answers.

Rochelle, 26:

I would give him a pass but it would be a once-in-a-lifetime pass. But I would save this pass for when things aren’t going well in the relationship.

Carol, 44:

I have been married for 16 years now, and if my husband was still holding on to things of his past we wouldn’t have made it this far. There comes a point when you just have to acknowledge that you are at a different stage of your life.

Lisa, 32:

It would take a very secure woman to make such a move. And I don’t think I am there as yet.

Sally, 38:

If I have to give him a pass to be happy in our relationship, then clearly something is wrong. If my man is holding onto his past, then he hasn’t matured enough to understand that growth is needed for a relationship.