Can you really trust someone who cheated before?
All Woman, Relationships
 on May 24, 2017

Can you really trust someone who cheated before?

By Miss Kes 

 In some instances, it is possible to mend a broken relationship if the root of the problem is uprooted; and infidelity is the kind of termite that needs extra care. Is this a type of fixable problem? Can you really trust someone who cheated on you?TG:No, you cannot trust after that. I have tried that and it failed big time. It was a lingering thought and that was nerve wracking to the point that if he said he was going to the bathroom, I thought he was going to cheat. It cannot be fixed after cheating. Just walk away.HG:I couldn’t do that at all. I mean you hurt me once, it is my duty to ensure it never happens again.CG:I have, because I love my man and I wasn’t about to leave him to any side chick. We are good and have been since I found out.Ryan:No. Once trust is broken, it is a wrap totally. Trust in a relationship is like gas to a car.

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