Advice from the wise
WOMEN have it — a system of sharing where advice is passed from woman to woman, from generation to generation, about things like men, love and sex. As such, women are usually prepared for all that life throws at them, and they will be able to mind the children, manage the household, hold down two careers and grin and bear it even when emotionally their worlds are falling apart.
Men, on the other hand, aren’t wired with that system of sharing, and so any event that plays on or with the emotions can topple even the most stoic Samson. But all that’s changing this week, as some older fellows start the system of sharing — with tips for their younger brethren about love, sex and women.
Garry R, 37:
For me, patience goes a long way when dealing with women. Younger men need to understand that in love you have to be patient; in dealing with women it takes much patience and in sex, patience is a virtue.
Karl A, 58:
My advice to younger men about love, sex and women is to do it often and plenty.
Courtney H, 63:
All three are an art that you need to master. To love, you have to first experience love and love yourself, to understand women takes time and you may never truly understand them, but be patient. With sex, understand that it is pleasurable to give someone else pleasure.
Lance R, 46:
Love hard, don’t be afraid to love. You will get hurt, but you learn from it. Women will try your patience, but as my daughter loves to say, “Keep calm and carry on”. Where sex is concerned, always be open to learn, take NO for answer and when it’s flowing, enjoy the moment.
Ryan T, 50:
Life is lovely when you love, but it might not always work out. Women are interesting beings, very interesting. If she asks you a question, chances are she already knows the answer or you’re in big trouble. Sex is good, have it often, but be understanding and know that women are oftentimes not in the mood. Instead of complaining, help them de-stress and you may just get your wish.
Andrew C, 39:
Women are highly emotional beings and will snap for the least little things. It doesn’t mean they’re miserable, something might just be going on that they haven’t shared with you. Love is important and when you experience true love, you’ll know. Sex is also important, but understand that not all women have high libidos. This does not give you a visa to go and get it outside. Try with your partner and figure out alternative ways to please each other.
Dalton W, 54:
Don’t try to understand women, just love them and have sex when you can. But most importantly, love them and care for them.
Neville R, 47:
Love is a mechanism, master it. Women are complex; get to understand their complexities and adjust your ways to suit them. Sex goes hand in hand with the complexities as well.
