Empire, food and stress relief: What’s really on our minds during sex
Ever wondered what’s going through your partner’s mind while you are getting it on? Is she totally into the moment, and flying to the heights you are, or is she thinking about housework? Is he totally into you, or is he thinking about the football game?
Below, readers share what’s usually on their mind when busy in bed.
Franz, 31:
A man can think about anything under the sun when he is doing the deed, but most times I am just thinking about how I can please my partner, not necessarily the moaning and groaning, but the experience on a whole.
Ann Marie, 37:Empire.
Being with someone for long can make things with that person monotonous and boring. So I may imagine that I’m doing it with someone I like at work or someone on TV just to spice things up.
Delroy, 35:
Boy, to tell you the honest truth, I’m thinking about numbers one, two and three on the side…
Richard, 37:
Half the time I’m trying hard not to get there too fast. I don’t have time to concentrate on anything else.
Chris, 34:
Sometimes I’m hungry and so even before we’re finished, I’m wondering if she’s gonna make me something to eat.
Lisa, 29:
My favourite television show. So I’m usually hoping he can hurry up and finish so that I can go watch
Keith, 31:
I’m thinking about how I’m going to feel less stressed afterwards, especially if I can watch a football match afterwards. Boy, that would just add to the euphoria!
Orville, 39:
Men can’t manage too many things on dem mind at any one time and so I focus on one thing at a time. My woman has to be pleased properly.
