The other men in her life she’s comparing you to
Just like men are accused sometimes of comparing their women to their mothers, or some unforgettable ex, women, too, sometimes idealise other men who their men probably can’t hold a candle to.
Who is the other man in her life you think you’re being compared to?
Mark, 34:
Women have a tendency to want to compare you to their friend’s good-up good-up man. Everything you do, every move you make, she has to mention his name.
Dave, 40:
Bwoy, she always makes reference to her father when she wants an example for me to emulate. Her father woulda do this, her father woulda do that for her mother… If her father was here, this is what he would say. Daddy’s little girls, if they don’t grow out of it, will bring their daddies into your relationship!
Alton, 40:
My girl changed jobs and everything she has to say is about her boss. In her eyes, he is the perfect leader. It looks like I am going to have to start picking her up earlier than usual so that I can meet this wonderful boss of hers.
Tyrone, 36:
I never thought I would say this but my pastor a gives me competition when it comes to my wife’s admiration. In her eyes he can do no wrong. From prayer meeting to choir rehearsal, it’s just pastor, pastor, pastor! I just shake my head.
Alfred, 43:
Her big brother is very protective of her and she will always make reference to him in situations where she wants me to protect her.
Delroy, 35:
It’s one thing if you are the rebound right after a massive break-up, but it is an entirely different thing when you meet her and she tells you that she had moved on. Every so often my woman will make reference to her ex-boyfriend. And I think if I look good enough I can see sadness come over her face.
Richard, 37:
Nowadays for some strange reason every woman has a male best friend. Back in my days, when it was just women being the best friend it was much easier. But now it’s like the best friend is competition and sometimes when they get too close it’s like she would rather talk to him than you.
