How to tell he’s just stringing you along
If a man wants to be with you he will let you know it, no excuses. If all he has is one goal in mind, then the excuses will be many as to why he can’t be with you outside certain periods. How do you know he’s just stringing you along?
Diane, 29:
When he’s always busy and if he doesn’t pay you any attention. When a man is not interested in you genuinely, it will be clear as day.
Elizabeth, 30:
I find that if you test him he will show his true colours. An extreme test that some women may do is pretend that they are pregnant. If he is into you then he will step up to the plate but if he is not then he will leave. Giving your man little tests to see how he handles different situations is a great way to see if he is really into you.
Faithlyn, 37:
When he is always telling you lies — if he says he doing one thing at a particular place and then when he comes home he tells you a different story. When a man can’t get his story straight then you know he is playing you.
Na-Dene, 33:
For me it’s the constant excuses — everything that he does or doesn’t do he has an excuse for it. He doesn’t make a genuine effort to keep his word and he would rather give an excuse instead. Everything that comes out of his mouth is a round the corner story…
Camille, 32:
When the man is bored with you, you can’t get him to be excited about anything. Everything is a drag, he is not attentive to you, your moods, your facial expressions. If you can’t stimulate him apart from sexually, then he is not into you.
Celia, 30:
When he is playing hide and seek with you then he is not into you. If everything he does is a joke, he doesn’t give you straight stories, you can’t find him where he said he would be, then he is just stringing you along.
Lisa, 29:
You know, to be honest, it can be hard to tell sometimes especially when a man is good at covering up his tracks. As a woman you have to have the intuition to be able to sense these things. Plus you have to use your common sense as well. If he is only asking you for sex and nothing more than that, it’s a warning sign. If he is not interested in getting to know you as a person; if he is not willing to help you, then it makes no sense.
