The moves he hates (but won’t admit to you)
THEY say there’s no grey area when it comes to the thoughts of men, and in the middle of doing the horizontal mambo, it’s highly unlikely that they’ll pause if they don’t like something you’re doing.
Though the reasons may vary as to why a man won’t ‘fess up his disapproval in the bedroom, one thing certain is that no one wants to pass up getting some action. And so, to make your next sexual experience more fulfilling, here are, straight from the horses’ mouths, a few sex moves that men hate, but will never confess to you directly.
Being bitten/clawed
Though some women might see this as sexy, when you have serious conversations with men they will tell you how painful it is. “If she does it once I’ll keep going, but if she continues doing it I’ll hurry it on or just stop. Why must I be bruised or have swollen limbs? Isn’t sex supposed to be pleasurable?” asked 42-yearold Romar.
Being slapped on the rear
“I should be the one slapping your butt, not you slapping mine,” said 30-year-old Anthony. For him and many other men, it’s a turn off and seemingly a reversal of the bedroom roles. For starters, men like to be in charge and this gesture shows power.
Talking dirty
Some men actually love this, but there are others who see it as a turn-off, especially if it is a recent habit picked up by their significant other. “I’m used to her being emotional and passionate, not rough and raw, so when she goes in that direction, I sort of find it difficult to concentrate,” said 36-year-old Eric.
Squeezing their testicles
Professed experts have said that the gesture, done lightly, will help your man last longer, but men say it’s distracting and slightly painful. “While it may be a good tactic, it hurts, because not all women are good with judgement. The first time my girlfriend did it I doubled over in pain,” said 29-year old Matthew. Joshua, 26, also shared similar sentiments. “Just know that it hurts. It’s swollen and semen is built up for release; squeezing it is painful.”
Being unnecessarily rough
While some women see this as a turn-on and some men get a kick from it, quite a few men see it as a turn-off when a woman ‘handles’ them. “When she starts to get hostile and starts to choke and slap and act all bosslike, it’s not cute,” said 37-year-old Markland.
Being too relaxed
Markland added that while men might not appreciate an over-the-top rough woman, they certainly don’t like ones who are too complacent in bed. “Take the driver’s seat, but do your thing in moderation,” he said.
— Kimberley Hibbert
