How to tell he’s a strange one
Some men find it hard to contain themselves around women, a trait that can be off-putting or even dangerous. These are the types who go beyond the usual stalker tendencies into the realm of the crazy.
How can you identify a man who’s a bit on the strange side? Psychotherapist Craig McNally shares three signs.
1. There are no boundaries in what he shares with you
If the nature of the relationship is that you have only met a few times and are only at the stage where there is mutual interest; then it can be a little bit unnerving when he begins to share certain private and intimate details about himself. If he’s telling you how he likes to be pleased or some other aspect of his sexual history, and expecting you to do the same, then watch out.
2. Putting the moves on you too soon
Sure, a gentle touch is okay, but a stroke on the breasts or butt is clearly taking it too far way too fast. Being too sexual too soon can be a major turn-off as it is not only uncomfortable if it doesn’t come naturally for the woman, but it can be downright threatening as well to her personal safety.
3. He is busy planning for your future together
So you have only known him for one month and already he has made it known that he wants you to be the mother of his child. And the worst part is that he doesn’t even ask for your input; in his mind everything is all rosy and perfect and it’s all about you fitting into his plan. If he is eagerly planning for your futures together, slow him down a bit because before he knows it he will be destined for heartbreak.
