Are you getting the love you deserve?
Are you getting the love you deserve or not? Below, psychotherapist Craig McNally shares five signs that you’re not quite there.
1. He doesn’t acknowledge your presence
Every woman wants to be the centre of attention when it comes to her man. But picture this, you walk into a room and he is just sitting there. He doesn’t get up to greet you, he doesn’t even look up to acknowledge your presence, and instead he just continues to thumb away on his cell phone. This is even more hurtful if he decides not to acknowledge you in public! For sure this is a relationship red flag and so you should either confront him about it or for all intents and purposes respectfully pull out of the relationship.
2. He is not supportive of you
So you want to go back to school to get some more qualifications or maybe you want to go up for that job promotion at work but he is lukewarm in his responses about the things which matter to you. An unsupportive partner is a tell-tale sign that you’re in a relationship that is going nowhere fast. And you should get out while you still can. Don’t waste your youthful years on someone who can’t even mount a response to the things which matter the most to you.
3. You can’t remember the last time you felt special around him
Which woman you know doesn’t love to be complimented? Whether those compliments have any truth to them is an entirely different matter! Women love showers of gifts and whisperings of sweet nothings. If you don’t feel special around your partner then it is time for you to start reevaluating your relationship with him.
4. He forgets about things which are important to you
There are many important dates on a woman’s calendar, and like everything else, some are more important than others.If your man forgets these important dates then it shows that he is not as into to you as he says he is.
5. You are helplessly in love with romance movies
This is your compensatory mechanism for the fact that you are not getting satisfied at home when it comes to the love and attention department. Helplessly crying over a romantic comedy or feeling just a tad bit jealous when you see your friend holding hands with her man is a sign that you are not being satisfied. But have no fear, get enough courage and tell your partner about it. Let him know how you are feeling and if there is some middle ground you both can agree on. Communication is the best way of ensuring that that rift in your relationship doesn’t widen.
