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How soon is too soon for intimacy?
All Woman, Relationships
 on September 3, 2015

How soon is too soon for intimacy?

BY PENDA HONEYGHAN 

For some women, sharing their bodies with someone new is a sacred and emotional experience. But there are others who share a different ideology, and may find it easier to engage in sexual relations without having to worry about their emotional state during or after the act.

All Woman asked both sexes to share when it may be too soon for intimacy.

Brittany:

I don’t think there is such a thing as having sex too soon. I know that once the people are comfortable enough with each other they should do whatever they want once they are adults.

Carl:

I could never respect a girl who has sex with me on the first night. Not that there is anything wrong with her, but after that the only thing I would wonder is how often she gets down like that.

Dwayne:

Anytime before marriage is too soon.

Popcorn:

It must happen from night one.

Rushawn:

I don’t believe there should be any timeline  placed on it. Personally, I don’t believe it should happen on the first day, but if it happens it happens.

Louise:

No time is too soon. I don’t believe in putting time on it, because you can meet tonight and have sex tonight and he stays, and you can wait until next year and after that he’ll leave.

Shanae:

It’s good to date at least a year so you get to know the person. I think that during the first six months is too soon. That is like rushing into a relationship knowing nothing about the person, but because of love it carries your mind all over the place.

Sammy:

I personally think that less than a year is too soon for intimacy because of the fact that everyone knows how to act and exactly what to say to win someone’s heart, trust etc. But you have to take time to know the person. The person’s true personality will eventually come out because nobody can pretend for too long.

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