My ex is evil

YOU were swept off your feet when you first met them, or over time you appreciated their qualities and fell in love. They were the most important individuals in your life and there was hardly anything that could turn you against them.

But somewhere throughout the course of the relationship things changed and you now regard each other with the greatest measure of disdain.

What’s worse is that apart from the mutual dislike between you and your ex, their actions have earned them the label of being evil. But what could have caused something good to become akin to the devil?

Below people share with All Woman stories of evil expartners they’ve encountered.

Nathaniel:

She pretended to be someone else on social media and sent messages to herself as well as a couple of my friends about me being promiscuous and she being loose. Then she called and started an argument asking about the pretend girl who was sending those messages, and saying how much I hurt her. I knew it was her alter ego as the people she sent it to are the only mutual friends she and I shared.

Joanna:

Evil is an understatement. I met him while he was in a very low economic position and I helped him get on the farm work programme and wished him well when he left to earn for himself and send back money to look after me and our son. He would call and tell that he was filing for me and I should get my papers together. One day I signed on to Facebook and realised he got married to a white woman and also had a child with her — a secret family, which was now out in the open, while our son and I remain in Jamaica struggling to make ends meet.

Marva:

We were married and I remember he showed up at the house with a girl who he said was his cousin. It turned out to be true, but he was also sleeping with her. After months of suspicion and putting up with attitude from the girl, I spoke to her over the phone and asked what the relationship was with my husband. She said they were indeed cousins, but they were also having a sexual relationship.

Alwin:

She was the devil incarnate. I got fed up with the relationship with her and told her I was going to leave as I had met someone else and was getting to know the individual. Even though I was not involved intimately with the person she believed I was cheating, and burnt the girl with acid.

Hanna:

I was married for 15 years with three children, with my oldest child being 10 when the marriage started deteriorating. It wasn’t before long that my exhusband took up his stuff and moved in with a girl six doors from where we lived. Imagine watching him play the role of new breadwinner and family man to her and her kids while we were six doors away clamouring and struggling to make ends meet.

Maxine:

He was always soft-spoken and basically did everything to please me. One day I told him to come get me at work and he didn’t come. I waited for about two hours, called him: nothing. When I got home all his things were gone and he was nowhere to be found. It was quite unlike him so I panicked and used a phone tracker software to find his phone. I realised it was at the airport. I called his aunt, only to find out he got a job in Miami and left without telling anyone. To this day he has not called or anything.

Donald:

Because she couldn’t have her way she took our daughter and refused to allow me to see her. When I went by the house to look for the child she let her dogs out on me. I got bitten on my knee and arm.

Marcus:

When I decided to leave the relationship, she burnt all my clothes and important documents.