Here’s who your mate wants to cheat with

YOU stood before the marriage officer and promised to take your spouse, to have and to hold, from that day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do you part.

But when the rubber hit the road and the marriage began, you might have glimpsed a hot male or female somewhere and had second thoughts about being wholly devoted to your husband or wife.

If you’ve thought about cheating, who would you do it with and would it be a downgrade or upgrade?

Below All Woman got a few married people to ‘fess up to their thoughts about being unfaithful.

JP:

It’s commonplace to think about cheating in marriage. Look at it this way, when you put a man in a locked room he’s going to think of all the ways to come out, but if you put him in a room with the door open he’ll stay because he knows he can leave at any time. Being married, those thoughts come when you’re going through a rough patch or having frequent arguments. At that point I think I’d go and try something new. Who? That’s a tough one. But I’d say the slim, dark girl down the road. I don’t know her name but I admire her.

LR:

Yes, the thought has come a few times. She has a cousin who she’s close to who is 20 on a scale from one to ten. I’ve entertained the thought.

RW:

I’ve thought about cheating a few times. My ex-boyfriend is who I’d cheat with.

MH:

Yes, the pastor.

RG:

The thought comes, but it is not frequently. Usually I think of someone I admire like my co-worker, boss and my single yet very eligible neighbour who’s always smiling and clueless as to some thoughts I have about her.

MF:

Yes, I think about cheating, especially if my wife is upset with me and is withholding sex. I’ve never actually acted on the thought but I imagine myself doing it with people she doesn’t know. An example is my female co-workers.

SP:

Yes, and with Morris Chestnut.

DT:

Yes and no. I’ve thought about it sometimes but as the thought comes I quickly discard it. I can only hope my husband is being faithful, but I realise that those thoughts will come to him too. Who? Wow. I have thought about my boss. He’s easy on the eyes and has an amazing personality.

KR:

No, but if the thought comes I know it would be with the cashier at the supermarket whose line I always go in. She is very attractive and has a kind soul.

AC:

Yes. I think it’s commonplace for married people to think about cheating. My thoughts have been directed at my bishop, but that’s adulterous.

— Kimberley Hibbert