Why he won’t put a ring on it
While some women are out on the track running around having fun in the dating olympics, others have been around the field a few times, have already selected who they want on their team, and have been jumping over hurdles with these men for years, with no luck of crossing the finish line with a ring.
A lot of women get frustrated at the fact that they have been in relationships for years with the men they have given their hearts to on silver platters, but having made countless sacrifices, including having children, the men still refuse to marry them.
Why is this?
Well, you might be pressuring him too much. Putting your man in a pressure cooker hoping that he is going to get tenderized and give in to your wishes really isn’t going to work because in all honesty, men don’t do well under pressure and may just walk away.
Chances are, he is just not ready for marriage and is okay with things as they are and he doesn’t want that to change. He may be fearful that marriage will alter the dynamics of your relationship or he may just not be mature enough to handle the new official title of Mr and Mrs. Or who to tell, he might still be playing the field and you may not be the only woman in his life.
Whatever is behind his reason for not putting that ring on your finger, you need to figure out what your next move is going to be. You need to ask yourself if you can truly be happy in a stagnant relationship. Every woman deserves true happiness and real commitment from a man who is willing to put her on his pedestal as his wife.
