The recipe for passion
Sometimes the centre of pleasure, your bedroom, can become a place associated with boredom which can lead to a non-existent sex life. And no one really wants that.
Spicing up a lacklustre love life isn’t as hard as you’d imagine. Many times it involves just tweaking your recipe a bit in order to get something new out of the kitchen.
So:
1. Be open to trying new things. The introduction of sex toys and games can work wonders.
2. Role play. Bring different characters into your sex life. She could be your naughty schoolgirl and you could be her gynaecologist. It’s all in the name of fun.
3. Watch adult movies together. Adult videos narrated by sex therapists are available all over. You can get one and you will learn how to effectively stimulate each other. You can also watch erotic movies which will get you in the mood very quickly.
4. Be spontaneous. Take sex outside of the bedroom. Many people get turned on by the thought of getting caught in the act. It heightens the pleasure for them.
5. Sext. Send each other erotic text messages when you are apart. Tell each other all the naughty things you want to do later. Let your partner know how badly you want them.
6. Take charge. Know what you want and go for it. Don’t wait for your partner to do it, let them know what you want and how you want it by being aggressive and taking it.
7. Try to fulfil your partner’s fantasy. Sometimes you have to step out of your comfort zone to please your partner. Whips and chains might be more exciting than you think, as long as they don’t inflict damage.
8. Unleash your inner freak. Now is not the time to be shy. Now is the time to be comfortable in your skin, make your partner comfortable and let your inner sexual beasts collide.
9. Surprise your partner. Do simple things that you know will put your partner in the mood for love — like giving them a bath followed by a full body massage in a room lit by only candles, with their favourite music playing in the background.
