How to get a man in your Christmas stocking
With Christmas peeking its head around the corner, many women have started to go through their Christmas wish lists with fine-tooth combs, making sure they have listed everything they want from family and friends. But what about that secret list, the one that dreams are made of, the one that has you yearning for the perfect man wrapped up in a big red bow?Santa Baby, you need to be realistic about finding this man. No, Santa isn’t going to bring him to you all the way from the North Pole on his sleigh. You need to put in some work for this gift. Empire. You need to leave the house — go out and have some fun. Put yourself out there and make an effort to be seen.
Before you go off making your own personal remix to the song
So:
1. Know what you want
Know the qualities that you are looking for in a man. Because you are open to having a man in your life doesn’t mean that you are an open net to catch anything that comes your way.
2. Don’t be a hunter
Yes, you want to snag yourself a good catch, but in doing so don’t become a bounty hunter and grab anything that comes your way. Instead, be a magnet that pulls men to you.
3. Where is he?
At this point you have already figured out the type of man you want, and this should give you an insight as to where he might hang out. Keep in mind that if you’re looking for a humble Christian, you’re not going to find him in back of some club drinking Hennessey. Neither will you find him if you go to church every Sunday and leave right after. He may just be in that discipleship class you’ve been avoiding going to on a Wednesday night.
4. Go out
The man of your dreams isn’t going to land in your living room while you’re watching
5. Be careful who you hang out with
Having a girls’ night out is good; it will put you in a relaxed mode, making it much easier for you to be yourself, However, having too many friends around can be intimidating for some men as they don’t want to get rejected in front of all your friends. Also, going out with your best male friend can send the message that you’re already taken.
6.Be inviting
Be approachable to men; have a friendly disposition. That cold, hard, desperate vibe you give off can be a turn-off for some men. So if you know that you have stern look, be conscious of it and smile a little. But don’t smile too much, because you don’t want to seem crazy.
7. Step out of your comfort zone
If you are usually one who gets approached by all the wrong men, then maybe it’s time to be the one who does the approaching. Don’t just sit there staring at him, hoping that he will turn around and see you and just walk over to you. Remember, she who has raw meat seeks fire.
8. Be confident
Dressing nicely and looking good are the main ingredients in getting a man’s attention, but having confidence is an even bigger ingredient to have. Non-verbal actions and mannerisms speak volumes.
9. Have a plan
You have now seen a man that you are interested in, but what is the next step? Think ahead and have an idea of how to approach him. It is hard to strike up a conversation with someone you just met, so have a few ice-breaker questions. It’s also important to listen to his answers as this opens the door for you to ask follow-up questions and get the conversation rolling.
