Why he will fake it
Women have been doing it for years, either to stroke their men’s egos or to get things over with quickly. But now men are admitting to faking orgasms too.
Angel, 39, said faking was something she did regularly in her previous relationships, before she met her current boyfriend. But now the tables have turned, leaving her to wonder whether her man’s reasons are like hers were in the past — is he cheating, bored, or not satisfied with her?
Why do men fake it? Below some guys share:
Jason, 32:
If I had to do that with any woman then something is wrong. I might not be feeling her in every sense of the word.
Delroy, 38:
It happened to me once when I met this girl — nice shape, cute face, all of that — but the sex was a big thumbs down. She was beyond boring. So I had to find a way to end the moment so I pretended that I peaked and immediately drove her to the bus stop.
Andru, 28:
Some women know that they aren’t so great in bed so why be surprised when a man 1) only has sex with you once; and 2) resorts to faking it? They need to be honest with themselves.
Wesley, 46:
Sometimes a man can be tired just like a woman, but still tries to please her. His needs do not need to be met in that moment, he is more content with making her happy.
Rodney, 36:
Let’s be honest here, some women lack what it takes to hold a man. A woman doesn’t have to fit him like a glove but there has to be something there that holds him and if there isn’t, then she would have what I consider to be a Kiss Mi Teet spot — not a chill spot but an ‘OK I know for a fact I won’t be coming back there’ type of spot.
Sanjay, 29:
I have done it a few times. It was with a woman who I liked but was disappointed by her. She wasn’t boring but she didn’t have the ‘haffi come back’, if you know what I mean. I didn’t want to hurt her feelings so I faked it.
Neville, 43:
Sometimes a man will fake it to hide his own inabilities. It’s not always the woman’s fault as some men would want them to think. A man might lose an erection during sex or suffer from premature ejaculation.
Brian, 32:
I used to do it with my baby mother. In the beginning things were good, but after she had our three children things didn’t feel the same. I know it wasn’t right of me but she was a good woman and I really didn’t want to hurt her. But then I cheated on her and she left me.
