What he’s really thinking about during sex
IT’S commonplace for most people when engaging in consensual sexual activity to be totally in the moment, writhe in the throes of passion, experience sexual euphoria, and simply enjoy the act.
But many people think instead about the stresses of the world, and may even use the time to plan the following day in their heads. Last week the women ‘fessed up. This week men confess what they’re really thinking about while having sex.
Anthony S:
If it’s a new girl I always wonder how many other partners she’s had. If I get a second chance, I usually wonder if she went with someone else after me.
Daniel J:
I usually wonder if it’s the best she has ever had.
Adrian P:
I hope she doesn’t get pregnant.
Richard P:
It depends on who I’m with. Usually I think about what she is saying. Women usually talk.
Aaron R:
I wonder if she will remember me in a good or bad way, and if she’ll come back for a second round.
Rory V:
I usually wonder if I’m pleasing her, and if I’m not getting a reaction I try until I see something on her face that says pleasure.
Kevin A:
I have a very picky wife, and what works today doesn’t necessarily work tomorrow. So I’m always thinking about using what worked the last time and trying to find a new way to have her match my rhythm.
Jared N:
I’m always thinking of ways to please my partner. I will wonder, ‘is she enjoying it, is she annoyed’? And I’m always waiting for the reaction to see if I’m doing something right or wrong.
Ricardo F:
When she’s moaning, I wonder if the pleasure will compensate for the shoes she asked for.
