Would you want to see who your ex left you for?
There is a phrase that says ‘curiosity killed the cat but satisfaction brought him back’. As humans, we are naturally curious about the things we do not know about, and many of us will stop at nothing in getting our thirst for the unknown quenched. But in being curious, should there be a limit set to our inquisitive minds?
For example, if your partner left you for someone else, should you care who they left you for?
Stacia, 39:
I really couldn’t care less who he left me for. She could look like Beyoncé or even Big Bird, how she looked wouldn’t change the fact that the relationship is over and it’s time to move on.
Bruce, 43:
I don’t know any man who would even care that she had another man. I know I wouldn’t, and I surely wouldn’t be interested in knowing what he looked like.
Damian, 33:
I wouldn’t go out of my way to see her new man but if I saw him on the road I would look and wonder for a second what she might see in him. But like I said, wonder for a second. If she left me then it’s her loss. I’m not going to be so caught up in her life with her new man that I lose sight of who might be looking at me.
Francene,36:
I would want to know if he left me for an ugly girl. Most men don’t get an upgrade when they leave you; they normally go for a woman who can’t hold a candle to their previous woman.
Candice, 44:
I really don’t need to know, he made his decision, so good luck to them both.
Kirk, 38:
The only reason why I would want to see her new man is because he would be around my kids. Who cares if he looks better than me? I care to know if he is a paedophile more than if he looks better than me.
Tracie-Ann, 29:
A part of me would like to know what is so special about her that he had to leave me to be with her. I would hope she was ugly. I would feel better knowing I was better looking than her and had a lot more going on than she did.
Kay, 26:
In all fairness, I would want to see her and yes, I would size her up. I know that he would never find another me so anyone else would be a downgrade.
Dolreen, 41:
I don’t have time to waste to be looking at who he is with now. I would be hurt if he left me for someone else, but not to the point where I would have an interest in who he was with.
Judine, 32:
It’s just natural to wonder about this woman who made my man leave me for her. I would be curious to know what kind of hold she has on him.
