Spilling cheating secrets
You have been friends with this person for a long time and you have both been through a lot together — relationships, break-ups, marriages and kids. This bond is like that of a sibling; you both share everything with each other.
Your friend is now in a committed relationship with someone who makes them happier than you have ever seen them before. But you have found out that your friend’s new partner isn’t what they present themselves to be, because you found out that they are cheating.
What do you do? Do you tell your friend or keep it to yourself?
Shayne, 29:
I would tell her. I know my best friend and she would want to know. If I didn’t tell her I would be lying to her and I can’t do that to my friend or see someone making a fool of her.
Ruth, 37:
I had this happen to me before and instead of my friend believing me she took his side and cursed me out, telling me I was jealous of her. That friendship ended and so did her relationship with that man.
Bobby, 38:
I would tell him because if I was in his situation I would want someone to tell me.
Naomi, 25:
Some things are just meant to be left alone. I would want to tell her, but in all honesty sometimes these things have a way of blowing up in your face.
Marcel, 34:
I would tell him in a heartbeat, even right in front of her. That way she wouldn’t have time to play on his heart. I would even take pictures or any kind of proof I could find to make him see the type of woman she is. You can find women everywhere, but a good friend is hard to come by.