Faking it
SOMETIMES the bedroom has more actors and actresses than Hollywood and Bollywood combined, as faking orgasms occurs more often than we would like to admit. Women are usually the offenders, although a great male actor can be convincing too. For the players, the reasons vary from being bored to tired, to feeling a need to boost a partner’s ego, as the readers below share.
Michelle:
Sometimes I just want to be done; sex gets boring sometimes, but my man doesn’t feel sex is complete if his woman doesn’t climax. I am not proud of myself, but the fact that I didn’t climax doesn’t mean I didn’t enjoy the sex, and I am sure that most men live for knowing that they brought the house down, so it’s the least I could do.
Kay:
Have you ever heard people say that they wake up realising that they regret a hook-up? Well, I can regret a hook-up while the hook-up is in progress. I’ve faked orgasms when I just wasn’t connecting with the man, whether it was his reactions during sex, his technique, the smell of his sweat, etc. In this case faking is my best bet without causing him to feel bad.
Chin:
He lives with his family and sometimes I fake it so he will finish up sooner so they don’t hear us.
Sharry:
I was sorry for him. Every game was weak, and the poor thing kept thrusting his body against mine, seemingly very caught up in the moment while calling me names of foods. I couldn’t control how my mind and every cell in my body wanted to erupt in laughter at this man’s very poor attempt at lovemaking. I didn’t only pretend I had an orgasm to stroke his ego, but it would kill him if he knew what a disaster he was.
Jason:
There is no point to sex without a climax. No point at all, until I met this girl and she came on to me. I like girls like that, by the way. Soon enough, sooner than I thought, she gave me a pass to the cookie jar and it’s one pass I wish I had passed on. The scent down there that hit me had me gyrating like I had the most pleasurable orgasm in my life. I didn’t care if she wanted to label me, I was just concerned about whether or not that scent could transfer to me.
Akeem:
I have faked an orgasm before just so a girl would shut up. Nothing I hate more than a nagging woman or a noisy woman during sex, like someone is killing somebody. She was sounding like a goat or a demon or something, but it wasn’t sexy. It was scary and was killing my vibe.
Davvy:
She started catching feelings, asked me to make promises, and we barely even knew each other for a solid week. I’m already emotionally unstable, so I wasn’t gonna babysit anyone. And I knew she would misunderstand the tears that come with my orgasm (we’re a package) so yes, to avoid that and to get rid of this girl, I faked it.
Kyle:
Women think if you don’t have an orgasm their women parts cannot provide satisfaction. I ain’t about the life of walking around and hurting women’s feelings.
