Are you ready for the video light?
All Woman, Confessions
 on March 31, 2016

Are you ready for the video light?

By VANESSA E CHAMBERS 

So you keep telling your partner that you need them to be more creative in the bedroom, and that you want them to try new things.

One day he/she suggests handcuffing you to the bed, blindfolding you, and says they want to videotape the moment.

Would you really be down for that kind of loving?

Shemar, 28

Yes, yes. If my girl suggested this I would be all for it.

Tara, 31:

Not at all! Even if he said he wouldn’t spread it, I wouldn’t know because I would be blindfolded. I don’t think this would work for me. He and I would have to go back to the drawing board and come up with something else.

Damian, 26:

I love the idea but I’m not sure I would do it. What if she was angry about something I did in the past, she could take it out on me when I am restrained by handcuffs and blindfolded. What if she beat me or left me there?

Farah, 35:

I have seen video footage of too many people who were just having fun and somehow it got leaked. I’m not trying to be a part of that mess.

Dahlia, 33:

I would do it but only if I’m doing it to him.

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