Idris Elba and me
In the heat of the moment when eyes are closed, anything goes. For many women, love with Idris Elba becomes reality; for many men, it’s one of the features in Swimsuit Illustrated. But is this OK?
Is it OK to fantasise about someone else while making love to your partner?
Sofi, 34:
Nothing is wrong with it, but I have never done it. I have no need to. My man is all I need. He is good.
Brandon, 32:
Every man has a fantasy girl. What might surprise some women is that this fantasy woman doesn’t have to be a well-known person such as an actress. She could be the woman next door, a woman in his office, or, as low as it might sound, it could be his woman’s best friend.
Zaleeka, 24:
I really don’t think it’s that big of an issue. If I had a fantasy man or if my man had a fantasy woman, I think it would spice things up in the bedroom.
Jayson, 27:
Personally, I’ve fantasised a few times and it helped a lot. I was going through some things with my then girlfriend and the sex became boring, so I used to fantasise about someone else and it worked for me.
Tanya: 36
As long as he doesn’t call me by the other woman’s name, I’m good. Because I try my best not to call him Asafa.
