Are you the main course, or the side order?

He has never indicated or told you that you are his girlfriend/woman, and here you are, months later, still pondering where the relationship is going. Does he have another and you’re the one on the side?

Here are a few hints that you’re the side order and not the main course.

•He never shows up when he says he will, even when you have both made plans way in advance.

•He doesn’t go out of his way to do nice things for you, nor does he make you feel special.

•You only know the basic things about his life, like his favourite sex position.

•He doesn’t check in on you to see how you are doing. You could be dying and he wouldn’t know.

•You don’t spend any holidays together, no Valentine’s Day, not even his birthday. The only time you get to be with him during any of these occasions is after the day has passed.

•He doesn’t remember things that are important to you, like your birthday or you getting promoted at work. But he will remember the last time you had sex in his car.

•He has yet to introduce you to any of his friends.

•If he calls you 10 times for the month, nine of those times it’s for sex, and the 10th call is see if your period came.

•You don’t have an address for him and he has never taken you to his place.

•You only have sex at your place.

•He doesn’t want to make any commitment to your relationship. He doesn’t want to give it a label.