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After rejection, hope
All Woman, Relationships
 on May 12, 2016

After rejection, hope

By VANESSA E CHAMBERS 

I recently saw a post on social media that read, ‘I may not be your cup of tea, but best believe I’m someone’s ackee and saltfish’. I didn’t think much of it at first, but afterwards realised just how dynamic a statement this is.

Have you ever been rejected by someone only to be picked up by another person who loved even the ground you walked on?

Camille:

I once dated a man who when we broke up he told me that no other man would want me. A few months later I met my husband who loves everything about me and wouldn’t change a thing about me.

Wayne:

When I was in high school a girl once told me that I was ugly. I know that I wasn’t the cutest guy out there but to have someone say I was ugly really hurt me, and I went through the rest of my teen years feeling unwanted. But once I started university I met my wife. I was shy to approach her at firt but I eventually did, and the first thing she told me was that she loved my brown eyes and lips. She built my self-confidence and didn’t even know it.

Sandra:

I have been down this road but I strongly think that my guy is out there, somewhere, and he is going to accept me with all my flaws.

Courtney:

One man’s garbage is another man’s treasure. When I met my present girlfriend she kept asking me why I liked her. At first I thought she was asking because she doubted our relationship but after a while she told me that her ex told her things that made her feel like she would never find love. I see nothing wrong with her. She is heavy set and I have never knocked her about her weight. I love every pound of her.

Tameka:

Every hoe have dem stick a bush. There is someone out there for everyone.

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