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My crazy ex
All Woman, Relationships
 on May 31, 2016

My crazy ex

By VANESSA E CHAMBERS 

THERE’S a video circulating online of a woman who has taped herself breaking up with a man, who is bawling his eyes out, begging her to take him back.

Commenters have been aghast at her actions, as not only did she tape his pain, but she then posted it online for the world to see. What could he have possibly done to deserve such embarrassment?

For some exes, the bad deed that caused them to flip out and expose their mates can make any steps taken to embarrass them seem justified. For others, it’s just mere cruelty and carrying hard feelings that makes them do terrible things.

What is the worst thing an ex has done to you after a break-up?

Miranda:

I had an ex who I broke up with. He wasn’t pleased about the idea, because when I left I took all my stuff, which meant his house was now empty. He was bitter and was acting like a real girl about it, and he called the police on me, telling them I stole his things. The police turned up at my workplace because he didn’t know where I had moved to. I had to show them proof of purchase the next day. It was embarrassing to have them turn up at my workplace.

Shernette:

You know how sometimes you do things that you regret and then look back on it and wish you hadn’t? Well, I made an X-rated video with my ex. I also took a few nude pics. And the minute we broke up he sent them to everyone I knew, including my mother. I will never forgive him.

Ryan:

My ex and I had an argument and she left my house upset. I hadn’t spoken to her for days as I was waiting for things to cool off. I got an e-mail one day from my bank but didn’t open it as I just thought it was just a regular email. It wasn’t until I went looking for my debit card that I realised what took place. This woman cleaned out my account. I tried calling her but there was no response. When I went to her house, I told her she was a thief and that I was going to call the police on her. She then started to scream; I mean real screams as if something was happening to her. She told me that if I called the police on her she was going to tell them that I threatened her with my gun. I just licked my wounds. I never knew how crazy this woman was.

Moya:

I had an ex who sold my things. I was overseas on vacation and I found someone else and told him via phone that the relationship was over. A few months later I came back to and empty house. He had sold everything I owned.

Nick:

My ex was my world. I still love her, but from a distance. She told everyone I was gay when we broke up because I didn’t want her to keep our daughter. Thank God the people saw it for what it was, that she was just trying to hurt me.

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