Too much baggage

HAVE you ever met someone whose fear of losing you based on past relationships caused you to do what they feared the most – walk out on them?

Vee:

These are the reasons why I think people need to stop hopping like rabbits from one relationship to the next. People need to give themselves time to heal. It makes no sense to jump into a new relationship when you are still grieving over the last one. Stop bringing your past into your present.

Sophia:

I can relate to this. I have many fears going into new relationships and sometimes it’s hard not to project your fear onto your partner. I have a fear of cheating. I have been cheated on and so I don’t trust men. So when he tells me he is going to his friends or is working weekends, I question him a lot and it annoys him. I don’t do it on purpose, but I do it for reassurance.

Marcus:

My last girl used to get under my skin with her insecurities. She would do some weird things like check my phone, my Facebook, she would take pictures of her hugging me while I was asleep then posting them on my Facebook. It just got too much and I had to leave.

Denden:

My guy is insecure and no matter how much I try to make him understand that I love only him, he doesn’t get it. Don’t get me wrong. He’s not accusing me of things or anything, but he will make some little comments like why am I with him, how can I love him and that I would be better off with someone else. I hurts me because I truly love him.

Morgan:

I want a stress-free life, so any woman who is going to stress me out has got to go.