I’m finally over you
MANY people are only equipped with the ability to fall in love; not everyone knows how to fall out of love, and worse, be able to mend their broken heart. Sure, it’s good to get advice from those close to us, but what might work for them doesn’t necessarily mean it’s going to work for you.
How did you get over your broken heart?
Angel:
I had one major heartbreak that still has me shaken. I try not to think about him but it’s hard because we do have children together and every time I see him I remember what he did. It’s been years but I will never forgive him.
Robert:
I got drunk one night when it really it me that we were over. I did a lot of crazy things when I was drunk, but being out of control made me realise that no one person should have this great impact on my life. So I dealt with my heartbreak by acknowledging that it happened and deciding to move on and live my life.
Andreen:
I was depressed and locked myself away, then one day I realised that what I was doing was silly; pining over this man who wasn’t even worth it was only making me into what I wasn’t. I started going out more and slowly but surely he became nothing to me but an experience, lesson learnt.
Headley:
When my ex left me I took it real badly. I was upset and just started to sleep around, trying to mask my pain in sex which didn’t work at all. My mother was my rock, she talked to me every day. She helped me through it.
Joy:
I’m still trying to figure it out. My emotions go from happy to sad. I try to become more active at work, at church, even in my child’s school. When I’m around people I’m OK, but the second I’m alone he pops in my head.
